November
2007
Uniqueness
Most of the time, when I hit up a girl my main goal in an interaction is to find what makes her unique, and then genuinely appreciate her for her uniqueness. A phone number, a probability of a relationship, Sex — nothing matters at this point. Once I point this shit out, it’s game over.
I can do it at anytime in the interaction: the beginning, the middle, or the end. I do it on cold approach, on the phone, on my next day meet ups, etc.
This is the one thing you can focus on that can get you more girls in your life. Women want to know that you like them for their unique traits and that its not some fluke or some playerish attempt.
So you might want to ask yourself. What makes her unique? Explore it TOGETHER (meaning have her tell you why and don’t do it all on your own), point it out, and make it the warrant for your Intent.
Trust me, this is powerful, powerful stuff.
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…i love the way you put things down man, i wish sometimes i could write like this haha.. but yeah, i get this.. my goal in any interaction is to actually look for great things about them that i can appreciate, my very simple “Be great, look for greatness in others and be great together”..
..i mean it’s great if she can make me horny, then i’ll find out if we can be horny together (not many girl can do that to me, sho she’s ‘unique’ haha!..ü).. hehe..ü i interpret your ‘looking for uniqueness’ and equate it to ‘looking for greatness in others’..
…oh, btw, i ended up here because i was looking for the post of yours where you were talking about something like being a ‘mental photographer’ or something.. i like that one too.. i don’t remember much of it, but i just had an idea a few days back, maybe because of that same post, and somone asking what to text to a girl, told him “To look for cool things to see, and cool things to do, so you’ll have cool things to say”..
..hehe, anyway,, more power to your blog, i’ll drop by from time to time