November
2007
Different Strokes for Different Folks
Focus on where your strengths lie — This is absolutely one of the most important “natural” characteristics. Like i said before, most naturals … they hang out in the same bar all the time, It can be their weakness at some point, but that’s irrelevant. Point is, you want to learn from what makes naturals, well…naturals. And yes, they do get tail.
Here are some strengths to take an inventory from — looks, status and social proof, physical strength, personality, hobbies, talents/passions, adventures, commonalities, etc….If anyone, and i mean ANYONE hates you for it, THEY DON’T HAVE ‘EM, thats why.
Looks — if you have a body type or look that works for you, stick with it and amplify it. Pretty self explanatory
Status and social proof — Work the club scene/school scene/church scene (?) There’s nothing wrong with being the top dog everyone loves. If you know people, then that’s good, end of story
Physical Strength — If you work out, and can perform a vice grip on a 6′2″ dude, or you can break faces with your Muay Thai training, let it stand out. Women love guys who can protect them.
Personality — ahhh, the ever elusive. Make sure that you actually have one that you can identify with. Don’t be confused by who you have to be as dictated by the community. If you’re naturally funny, keep that skill set. Hobbies/Talents/Passions — Make sure you have a NUMBER ONE. Whatever that is, make sure ITS NOT A GIRL. Make love to your hobby like she’s the hottest HB10 around. Trust me, this is why extreme sports pros get laid a lot without even really trying to make the relationship work. They do their thing passionately, the girls swoon and watch, the girls fill the remaining part of the cup with companionship and sex.
Commonalities — Look, I’ll say this again. Who you are will attract a certain demographic of women. Its one thing to stand out, but its also an advantage to blend in. If you’re trying to attract a certain chick, make sure that she can ***actually see you in the future with her.** This is why you can’t overdo any type of DHV stuff because too much too soon will make you nothing but a shiny disco ball in her eyes. If she’s into the sports thing, maybe its time you threw away those goth gauntlets and tone things down.
Guys, you don’t see Lance Armstrong trying out Pro-wrestling right? Yet he’s dating one of the Olsen twins from what i’ve heard. All he has to do is focus on that winning attitude, train hard, wear that yellow suit, and win the tour de france and aid the fight for cancer. Thats why we individualize our instruction. We want to know what you’re strong at, amplify it, and work a lot on the weak points.
The bottom line is we want you to SHINE. I for one, am not “traditionally good-looking.” I am 5′7″ in height (still arguable), but I focus on a lot of my natural talents and strong points, which gets me ahead of most other guys who don’t use what they have.
Let me name some of what’s on my inventory:
a) Great first impressions and status
b) Asserting will and dominance
c) Charisma and mastery of social interaction
d) Dancing/Sexual Dancing
e) Purpose and passion
f) I generally have a lot to talk about — i.e My Mental Photography “hard drive”
Thing is, I’m not trying to be somebody else. If you notice, PERSONALITY and SKILL can trump all, and the aforementioned “strengths” can amplify those. So, my thing is i expand on things I’m interested in, and build upon those strengths. There are a thousand ways to pick up a girl, but I’ve chosen to work on those main parts of my personality to make my own style work. Doing so, will trump any ideas in a girls head that the traditional good looking guy has an edge, because, fact of the matter is, all those are merely *symbols* of how she wants to feel. If you can make her *feel* the emotions of being taken by a man, then her mantras and beliefs will MELT AWAY. Trust me, I’ve shocked myself time and time again.
Later
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I really liked that post Troy. Thank you.