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I Have Left Charisma Arts

Due to some issues with management, I have decided to leave Charisma Arts. I will go into removing any affiliation with the company on my blog over the next few days. I want to give my thanks to Charisma Arts, especially Wayne Elise, who gave me the opportunity to join and teach for the company in 2004. I wish him the best.

Take note though that I won’t be leaving my passion for teaching behind. I will continue to commit myself into giving you guys the quality material I have always been giving;

Thanks to The Wizard, we’ve set up a newly made online forum with the proper support. The forum is filled with experts in ALL areas of natural seduction and self-development disciplines who know what they’re talking about. Time to get involved and meet the family HERE

The company is also armed with talented, inspiring, experienced and more importantly QUALIFIED instructors and coaches to teach you guys live programs wherever you are in the world. Currently we are going to hold specialized bootcamps like PureNight, to be held in Las Vegas, which tackles high-energy night and club game scenarios. CityCharmer, which has a day time approach to things (New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Europe and Asia), as well as Comprehensive Bootcamps and One on Ones (with locations you can request).

Do send your inquiries and requests at info@troydizondating.com

Launched just a few weeks ago was the Highly Innovative SKYPE PROGRAM. The ONLY DISTANCE PROGRAM that produces results. It took me 8-10 months to create and develop a very stringent curriculum that could be taught without me having to be there, and have students receive equally successful results as live programs do, even more. And I have to say, we’ve been getting insane results off the bat, from guys in different parts of the globe.

With that being said, MY Commitment to YOU is to produce the most innovative products and services to satisfy your practice, lifestyle, and more importantly your budget. I want every dollar placed into this site worth it for you. I want the name and brand of this company one you can trust.

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I will continue to produce the CHAMPIONS OF CHOICE PODCAST SERIES, which has volume turn out to be one of the most quality-intensive instructional products for under $40.

This has been overwhelmingly exciting for me. As much as I’d like to thank Charisma Arts, I also want to thank you, the readers for continuing to support the site and I love reading all your success stories. I may have a back log, but your success stories will be out in due time (If i haven’t posted it).

As this page in my book is closed, a new one opens, and you can expect great things to happen soon.

You can continue to email me and send me feedback at troy@troydizondating.com

Troy

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A Student’s Manifesto

So you think getting the girl is really hard? Well…sometimes it is. But lets focus on the big picture here. 1 rejection, 1 hot girl, 1 interaction aren’t that special. Girls I thought who were sooo hot last year and that I couldn’t let go of are now ‘random good looking girls’. Hell, I saw 1 girl at the supermarket the other day (number closed me after showing me where the plates were) who could beat most of the hotties I’ve met and dated.

How do you get the girl? Sexual escalation. If you’ve done any coaching with Troy you will have learned that justified interest is the best way to go - it shows you have specific standards (if a room has 9 girls and I only like 1….well im not gonna FORCE it with any others) - and that you find HER hot. Not her boobs (maybe her boobs) or not for some dishonest reason (WOAH, I find it sexy how passionate you are about photography….FAKE!).

Even after call 1 I had a problem, a mental blocker. I couldn’t bring up sexual topics with a random girl I just met within the first 3 min. Well before going out I read up on Troy’s 2 posts about escalation…remembered the simple stuff he taught me about having justified interest and I went to a house party. I knew unless a) she suggested it *not as likely and bad to depend on* b) I suggested it or c) I stated my interest then D) nothing sexual would happen. So I sucked up my ego and started to speak my mind, no filter.

I always knew I had to lead women. Even with texting girls or MSN webcam stuff they’d never initiate it. When I did they were more than welcome and felt at ease. X=X REMEMBER IT! “YOU FEEL SEXUAL FOR HER SHE WILL FOR YOU - Troy D.” I only met 1 girl that I liked at this party and as she was talking to 2 guys I talk to her right away. 2 guys now leave, sweet. Troy teaches you to be the vibe king and the destroyer of all men who try to get between you and the girl you want. I realize were standing and this isn’t what I want…i lead by sitting…she follows.

She tells me shes a small town girl. I find that hot, I tell her. Justified interest. Boom. Shes now moving closer to me and all smiles. I talk about lingerie and sex. Now moving even closer. Touching her inner thighs. Ect. WTF THIS IS 5 MINUTES FROM MEETING? If a girl likes you why dilute it and mess things up? I can feel it when there’s a high point and now I KNOW that if I don’t lead im gonna kill it. I used to fear it but now I am more scared of not escalating. It’s boring to me now. I wanna have fun and flirt with her, I don’t care about anything else. Talking about her major isn’t flirting. Her sexiest outfit is . Guess what I did for a bit….it got the girls to leave. “Oh yeah I am so into that too” “nice *walks away*” and you wonder what happened? She was into you and you didn’t escalate.

Another girl we just randomly started talking and within 1 min were standing face to face looking each other in the eyes…im like WTF WE CAN’T BE READY TO MAKEOUT ALREADY? WTF WTF WTF. It’s insane how once you apply Troy’s stuff your whole vibe with women changes and stuff you never thought possible….is your life. Troy calls it the axe effect, I still can’t believe what I am seeing.

Troy gave me a lot of beatdowns. “WTF I DON’T WANT TO HEAR YOUR STUPID STORIES. OMGZ TROY OMGZ SHE DID THIS. TAKE RISKS WTF RU A MAN.” Yeah, it sucks but it got me to actually believe that unless I took those risks I wouldn’t get what I wanted.

This is what made it simple for me: 1. Lead or leave. If you don’t lead you will kill the interaction and she’ll think wtf happened to the guy I liked 3 min ago? Yep it can die that fast. I don’t care if you’re wearing Prada and got European stylists, no escalation and you’re goin’ down. I didn’t believe it when I read it in an article. You might know its true but be scared. Well as my buddy AaronDan once told me “maybe you don’t want it bad enough yet, but it came to a point where I was so frustrated that I just got sexual. I knew I HAD TO.” It feels so awesome to be free of platonic chains. When girls tell me about traveling now I yawn, I wanna talk about how I bring girls to blockbuster and how we invade the 18+ section and make fun of all the cheesy video names. Or how shes hot to me. You might have seen on dateline “rule 1 don’t call her hot”. Bull. If you’re 16-24 girls know what hot means. 26-30 sexy could be better but hot is what I like to say. If she’s an athlete and is telling me about how she just worked her ass and abs off and how they’re killin’ I am not going to say “WOW I find that sexy that you have endurance and work out” NO NO NO. She will leave or think you are pathetic. Troy told me “tell her that her ass is like wayyy better than those mtv dancers in a snoop dogg video”. That’s real. You’re a guy, she knows that. She knows you don’t find ‘endurance’ sexy. It’s her butt.

This brings me to number 2….

2. CALL OUT THE OBVIOUS. She feels it too. X=X.

3. Do not talk yourself out of a sexual window with more personal talk. I did that, the girl left. Believe that you are sexy. Be able to talk about sexual topics confidently. This is all in Troy’s articles here but until I took those bits and pieces out and wrote them down to apply, reading didn’t do anything for me. This is huge. Most of you guys get these windows….you just don’t do anything about them. Her eyes sparkle and you’re thinking “Woah” as you look into them….well “You have communicative eyes” is a good start.

4. Masculine energy aka self permission. There is no transition to escalate. She will not say: Okay _____ you can talk about sex with me now. If she feels weird, she’ll leave. If she’s there…well she’s having fun. F all this alpha bs you hear about. You don’t need to be jacked or look like a UFC superstar. Sexual escalation is where real confidence comes. It’s what turns her on. What allows her to be sexual with you. Half of the jacked dudes at the bar can’t do that….why else do you think Troy’s little 5”2 dudes are scoring with 6”2 Tommy Hilfiger models?

It comes down to just doing it and believing what I’ve wrote here. These beliefs are the truth and if you believe them too then your actions will fall in line with them. Don’t just browse over this as you eat your soup or sip your starbucks coffee, take time and cut out everything else. Itunes. Cable tv. Email. Until I did that I couldn’t actually take this all in. Check out both of Troy’s articles, they helped me a lot.

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Focus and Congruency in What You Want

If you’re sitting at home thinking “I’m kinda lonely, I think I want a girlfriend to enhance my life…” Then hey, there’s no harm in thinking that. We’re all here for different reasons. BUT, if that’s what you want and you go out thinking “I just want to improve my social skills…” Then, there will be a huge incongruence once you get to the point of escalation. You have to look deep down and be clear about your intentions as you’re learning this.

I’ve had different eras or sagas in my dating life. There was a period when I was a “notorious player,” when resentment from a past hurt motivated me to date as many hot girls I could. And I was very successful. I knew what I wanted so I acted as that. I was cocky, somewhat manipulative, and challenging. There were girls who loved that, and there were who didn’t. Did I live a life of drama? Yes, and add a few death threats too. Either way, it was a period in my life I will never regret, because I learned A LOT of lessons there that I consider priceless. I had around 6 or 7 girlfriends at one time, and sex was as easy as breathing.

Then, I also had a time when I realized all that notoriousness wasn’t all that good and wanted one girlfriend. I just wanted someone intelligent, socially savvy, and physically attractive to be my girlfriend. Because of that, I calibrated my approach to dating. So, for 2 ½ years, I had one girlfriend, and she was all that I wanted. I loved her, and my family loved her. My social life was awesome with her, and both our professional lives were on a high because of being mutual motivators and “being in love.” My life was blissful, and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Then I went single again, and realized I had various business goals and lived in a new city. So, I wasn’t necessarily looking for a girlfriend, nor did I have the same motivation to become a notorious player (plus I wasn’t ready for the drama), so I had mixed goals. I started going to school, and started to have friends. So, my mindset was, get a new set of friends, and have fun and socialize. I didn’t have a game plan or the logistics to close, but my goals were accomplished. By the first month, I had A’s on my grades, and I had a group of good friends to rely on.

Later on, this pick up artist buzz started, and I realized how fun it was and how I started feeling that whole “I think I want a girlfriend” attitude, so with my friends I started doing this stuff. I ended up dating a few girls, rolled up some one night stands, and what not. Once the buzz around it started, I said to myself, “I want to be an expert at this,” So, I set out on that task, studied and practiced 10,000 + times, and that eventually lead me to be a coach for Charisma Arts. I remember well that my friends here in San Antonio felt like I was drafted into the NBA or something. They hoisted me up on their shoulders.

The common thing in all those periods, was that I was able to accomplish ALL my goals. Why? Because I had a CLEAR MINDSET on WHY I was doing what I was doing.  If I were to re-write the ABC’s of dating, A would stand for ATTITUDE.

Now, teaching for a few years now, I’ve realized a huge trend from guys coming into this. Some guys come in this with goals that severely contradict each other.

Look at these 4 things:

“I want to improve my social skills” “I want a long-term girlfriend” “I want one night stands” “I want to date lots of girls”

Some might say that you can accomplish all 4 if you go out and practice. BUT IN REALITY, it will be a long, tough road, laden with very, very sporadic results. Now, unless you’re okay with that, go with the “accomplish all” mentality. But if you’re going for consistency, you can’t just go that way.

I have past students such as German Falcon, Stone, Eric L who are notoriously dating and seeing a whole pipeline of girls. We’re talking 5 girls simultaneously. Now, is that a coincidence? Do you think they just went out thinking “I want to improve my social skills” and this just happened? Do you think they even really think, “long term girlfriend?” NO. They actually up the ante on their skills, have actual day 2 or 3 transitions, and devote TIME into making this goal a reality. And no, they don’t want a girlfriend. To most guys, they don’t even have the time to date even if they approach every weekend. So, I tell you, set time for this. If you save up all your social time for the weekends, then forget it, because you’ll need to set time aside to actually convert these numbers and actually do a second meet up preferably when its NOT Saturday night.

This is what they wanted. And they do practice notoriously. I remember Stone said something like “I’m not going for less than an 8 in looks.” Hey, I’m not going to judge that. It’s no surprise that he’s dating escorts and bartenders from trendy night clubs. He goes 4-6 nights a week. Not because he wants to “practice social skills,” but he wants to notoriously date very attractive women. I know for a fact that German Falcon has tons of girls he regularly sees; apart from the new ones he meets everyday.

I have clients like Ch from Austin, or The Lion from Dallas who simply just want to get laid, and 2, 3 weeks down the line they do. Did they have to learn everything? NO. They just learned enough stuff to get them laid. If their goals change down the line, then they have to adapt their mindset and calibrate their goals to the new mission.

On being sociable — Learning to be sociable and actually accelerating your dating life, is almost like comparing apples and oranges.

I know LOTS and LOTS of people who are social hubs and have thousands of connections, while having zero or a negative romantic life.

Why? It’s because although being a social connector will indirectly move you forward into meeting more people and enhancing your life, it also requires a lot of WORK. Imagine, all the text messages, calls, meet ups, the name-remembering and the parties. Unless this is what you really want, don’t expect a lot of sex in return.

This is why I am not really a social hub. Sure, I have friends and social circles, and I can act as one in any social situation, but there is no way I can be a connector 24/7. My way of handling that is to have friends who are social hubs. If I have a party or event, I can trust my social hub friends to bring close to 7-10 girls each. In Charisma Arts I know Chad is pretty good at this. He even mentioned there were people who did only this (connecting and socializing) for 24 hours straight.

This is what you focus your game plan on, on what your true intentions are.

Here’s a real-world example –

You – Being sociable without any preparedness – blind and Incongruent

You go to a club, where there are lots of hot girls. Is there a reason they look hot? Let me see, to socialize? NO. They came out in hopes of looking for a romantic mate. Get that in your head. If you have another reason why they go to clubs, hit me up on email. I could be wrong. Anyhow, you approach the girl, you have the skills learned from practice, theory, as well as a previous boot camp, and things go really well…

You connect…

BUT….

There’s incongruence in attitudes:

You – being sociable Her – finding a mate

Look at this incongruence right here.

First off, in your mind you don’t want to get romantic with her, heck even if she were tossed to you in a silver platter there’s no way in hell you want to sex her. Your mind is not ready nor do you have the intestinal fortitude to push through. You don’t have any day 2 mechanisms and most probably even if you did get her to “have coffee and a good conversation” you wouldn’t know how that transitions to sex.

Re-read that last paragraph. If you’re not getting anywhere in your dating life and you’ve been approaching for awhile this is probably why. Now do you understand that everything starts with attitude?

So, you take her number… Your idea of a call back is something like “Hey Johana, it’s me Troy, what are you up to?” You call, she takes it, and you have this urge to “build attraction…re-connect, re-build that connection….” WRONG It’s going nowhere, and later on she flakes. She’s never heard from again.

When you are going out blind with the wrong reasons, you don’t escalate. You don’t even have the mindset or the logistical mechanisms to set things in motion

When I’m interacting, I’m sure that I do have a game plan. I do know places which we can have a relatively low-pressure meet up to be ourselves. I also know how to transition from there to back in my bed room. Plus, I am ready for any sexual advance that might happen ANYTIME in the interaction. I’m ready to make out, do some foreplay, heck, and even have sex in my car if I have to. Even before I get her number I’m already telling her about what will happen. I’m bringing her into my life, my reality. So when I take that number it’s as easy as “remember what I said about playing some songs together? I’d love to do that with you. What days are you available in the week?” She KNOWS that there is DIRECTION as to where this is going. In her head, she’s thinking “We meet, play some tunes together, I get to express myself, I get to know him more, we share some intimate moments, and we have sex by date 3.” That’s what’s on her mind even before she gives you the number. Can you imagine what would happen if you had an empty game plan?

Let me give you an easy way I can figure out if a guy knows what he wants

I call it “The Congruency Question”

I simply ask my clients “What would you do, if you were out in a club, and a hot chick comes up to you, saying…I want to fuck…”

What would you do?

If your answer is somewhere along the lines of “uhhhhhhhhhhhh….errrrrrr…..” Then you must re-evaluate your goals.

In conclusion, you have to re-evaluate your intent into this, because once you do, you will have a clear cut desire and a well-thawed out game plan consisting of goals and objectives to get you closer to that ideal lifestyle.

Don’t go out blind. Go out prepared

Troy

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Everything that happens around you is a manifestation of what happens in you

I sometimes get asked how the heck did I know all of this…how I got my social intuition and experiences. To that, I simply say “I got lucky.”

Got lucky that I went through that social shyness during child hood, to eventually getting myself out of that long dry spell when I entered college, loving hard and falling hard with my first girlfriend, and getting cheated on eventually as 2 years passed, then going into a “player stage” to feed my ego and deal with the extreme pain I was enduring… ended up sleeping with tons of women, but consequently hurting most of them, then quitting that toxic lifestyle and opting for an emotionally healthier dating life and changing my preferences towards women, to ending up with a great circle of friends, joining the military and ending up in Texas, finding out about an online community of pick up artists, to eventually getting very good, then doing my first ever boot camp for $20, then students got results, and people flocked to see me, then getting recognized for the results in ‘04, meeting great mentors and role models, being in the company of some amazing women, traveling to around 30 destinations, starring on TV, going through an FHM article and photo shoot, realizing who my TRUE friends are and who weren’t, ultimately leading to NOW with so much experiences and so many great people supporting me from around the globe. All 44,000 of you.

I got lucky, or maybe I didn’t?

All i know is that everything that is manifested around you comes from INSIDE YOU. A lot of what happened to me, both ups and downs happened because of what I felt inside me, and what my mind set was or how I saw myself.  If good things and good karma comes, its probably because you’re great inside, and that  you have very clean intentions and good goals for yourself. Its because you are a beacon of light, and your purpose is to be an example of goodness. If you help other people grow and realize their potential instead of hindering it, if you love and not hate, things just come. You eventually become “lucky.” On the other hand if you’re exactly the opposite, tons and tons of problems are bound to plague you.

My great mentor taught me this lesson as a hallmark lesson in life. I’ve had a hell of a weekend dealing with some issues and drama, and before I turn the leaf to the next chapter, I just had to write this up.

Troy

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Field-Test Review of Podcast 1: Dominating Social Venues

Well, the weekend isn’t over and we’ve got guys field testing and getting success off of the podcasts. WIthout further ado, here’s the review from G-man, who hails all the way from Scotland, Europe!

Hey Guys

For everyone who can’t be bothered reading a long review: This podcast is very good and will make you a lot more social in 60 minutes, as long as you implement the stuff Troy is talking about.

I only got the podcast late at night on a Thursday, but I had a busy weekend ahead so I decided to listen to it right then and there. Even though I was a bit tired, I could follow it very easily. It’s clearly structured and it’s packed with tips and tactics. This is definitely a welcome surprise after listening to a lot of podcasts from other people, which present a couple of disconnected ideas and contain a lot of “entertaining but not very useful” rambling.

The first thing Troy speaks about is how to get into a good state before going out. I would usually just go out without any preparation, which meant that I was lacking energy when arriving at the venue. I then faced the task of bringing my energy up in the venue, which I often found hard to do.  This time I followed Troy’s advice and I felt amazing. I carried this feeling to the concert I was going to and  suddenly people were noticing me and smiling at me right when I walked in, which made me feel even better. When previously the first set of the night was always a bit of a struggle, this time I found it hard NOT to open people.

Troy then speaks about how to make insta-friends at a venue. Previously, I would not “sarge” when I’m with my non-community friends. It just felt weird to go and open this 3-set over there and then the 2-set in the corner etc. This, however, is different. I can go and open groups while I’m with my friends and then introduce them to each other. While they’re still talking to this group I can open another one and then merge them. It was so much fun doing this at the concert on Friday. And the same thing worked equally  well at a house party I went to on Saturday. And it even worked in the club we were going to after the house party.

Troy also fixed one of my bad habits. I used to dump my life-story onto people, and a lot of times the initial energy of the interaction just vanished in the process. In this podcast Troy talks about what to do instead of telling long stories. As a result, my interactions went a lot smoother and were a lot more fun and to the point. Troy also talks about how to make people feel comfortable, which again helped me a lot to have better interactions this weekend.

All in all, I can only recommend this podcast. It has helped me tremendously this weekend and to be honest I only implemented a couple of things. There’s a lot more golden nuggets in it, which I’m going to put into practice the next time I go out.

G

Scotland

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THE PROGRESSIVE WEEKEND

Thanks to the guys who came over and listened in to the conference call the other night. I had to log in and out, but I’m glad I was able to help out the listeners.

Speaking of a progressive weekend, I myself wanted to start it off right, by committing myself to a new power work out plan.

As I blasted through Friday, I had a reminder of the epiphanies I had doing my work out, which parallels to some of my best students do to achieve amazing results in pick up.

a) Start with ONE ACTION, no matter how small or large, then follow through - Instead of dilly-dollying around, speculating, thinking, I picked my ass up off the floor and went to the local GNC to get some supplements — got me some whey protein, NO, Cell Mass and some Meal Replacements. Then, I went home, got ready, and picked up my training program.

In Pick Up - I don’t always have students who have some of it figured out. I have students who are completely new, completely beginner, and sometimes their nights and days out get ugly. The point is, they are all winners because they implement QUICK, they try to take action QUICK, and their follow through is just impeccable. So, all they have to do is put in that intensity, and time won’t matter. Most of them succeed with women quicker than guys who love putting things on the shelf. So don’t wait! Even if you can get in one interaction today with a stranger, and INFECT them with your awesome vibe, do it!

b) Found the best training program available - I had a plethora of work outs available to me — total body mass, switch ups, circuit training, etc. I utilized what I needed for now, and the game plan is to switch my game up and not plateau.

In Pick Up - No brainer here. You want to get ultra good, find specialists to do the job. If you need inner game tweaks, conversation, non-verbals, logistics and date-planning, dance game, etc, find the specialists in those areas and hound them for a phone or live session. As always I do offer my excellent services via phone or skype coaching and I’m definitely endorsing any of the guys on my blog links.

c) Disciplined training and follow through - I did exactly what was on the game plan. I did my incline bench presses, flyes, and flat bench presses. I then went into my triceps routine. It was not easy. I grimaced every time I pushed my failure rep. Unlike some people who were doing a luxury trip and checking other people out, I focused, did my 1 hour, and left. It felt good.

In Pick Up - Have a game plan, and execute it. Immediately implement it. Like i said before, do skills-specific training. If its vibe, or leading, touching, or sexual escalation, its good to follow through and do exactly as you planned. Even if it doesn’t go as you probably thought it would, have a strict regimen.

d) Push an extra rep -Like I said, I made sure that I pushed an extra one or two extra reps.  It sucked balls knowing you’re already in a fatigued state, but it felt good pushing through mentally and physically.

In Pick Up - Always push for that extra approach, especially if you’re at your last. You’ll never know. I’ve had lots of my students gain success by running and gunning after the party. So yeah, do one extra approach.

e) Always train around specialists - Last night I was graced by the presence of my core team - Timmy “Monster” D, Andy “Tie-Guy” Segars, Aaron “Nice Guy with Game” Dan, and one of my new friends James.  People think we’re just a bunch of guys working together or a sarge-team. But we are all brothers, the best of friends in real life.  We always trade our core secrets and help each other become better at our game and better coaches/teachers. I think our strength as a team is that we are not confined by dogma. Every time we go and push ourselves there are these rare occurrences that we do get some aha moments, observations, or techniques. I think its really awesome being around such talent.

We put it to the test that night by going out. As always it was a clean massacre. Pure swagger, simpler, real interactions, and sexual escalation. Right when we walked in it was easy to plant and collect. The bar, was pretty small and line of sight was EASY. Made everyone my friend.

I never stayed in set, MY MODUS OPERANDI: I would just call out the obvious as an opener, gain agreement, and lead/leave. in 15, 20 minutes I had girls chasing me all around the bar. In which I would come over to another group, find the hottest chick and say..”SAVE ME!” once I got scooped up, I said “thanks, I think this chick has c*m stains on my leg, seriously” and get the laughs. As always, I gave a girl blue balls at the end of the night. It was sad because all her friends already left her to come home with me. She kept looking back from the parking lot because I didn’t even get her number. As always everyone was just on point. “NGWG” (Aaron) did great, opening with “hey I wanna say whats up…to the ONLY VIP TABLE here ( really it was the only one)…I gotta say…you guys do it justice!” after that they just ate him up. Being that it was Andy’s last week in Texas, I think his mission was to get totally wasted, but because it was a falcon reunion, he held back. They’re currently in Austin and I can guarantee you he IS getting wasted now.

Cheers to your progressive weekend!

Troy

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PREMIUM PODCAST - Vol 1 - MASTERING BEING SOCIAL

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As we release more Champions of Choice Monthly Premium Podcasts every month, we take our previous ones on the shelves for good. If you missed out on this one, make sure to subscribe now on our current crop of Champions of Choice Releases so you can enjoy high-quality podcasts like these. If you have any questions or concerns, email us at info@troydizondating.com

“How a 40-minute listen got me from being that nervous guy in the corner to a SOCIAL PHENOM everywhere I went!”

“You don’t need to learn and follow a strict dogma or pick up system to dominate a social venue and be amazingly social. “

- TROY DIZON

Listen. Here are three things you want to know, to be able to do it.

It takes

1. AWARENESS
2. PERSONALITY, and a
3. STRATEGIC APPROACH

Here’s a quick mini-story on me:

When I moved into a new city a few years ago, I literally had NO FRIENDS.

I had just got out of the Air Force, and was stuck in my new apartment playing video games and watching TV.

It wasn’t until around 2 weeks when I realized how much I was missing out on a really great social life. There were people OUT THERE! Having fun, socializing, networking, and having lots of SEX!

So, I let my frustration get the best of me, and I picked my butt off the chair and got on it.

It was then that I started to formulate and use some very smart and efficient ways to put myself out there and gain new friends and acquaintances

I would walk into social venues such as bars, house parties, college gatherings, and business cocktails ALL ALONE and through trial and error, found some very smart ways to know pretty much everybody. I have to say, it felt like being the Mayor after awhile.

After doing a few of these for weeks to come, I started to become Mr. Popular. I would go back into these venues and within 30-45 minutes, have all these people approach me. Including some very attractive women I DIDN’T EVEN THINK I could approach back then. They were coming up to me! Asking my phone number, where I stayed, and when we could meet up for some drinks!

(This would eventually progress into an integral part of my current system at troydizondating.com)

At one, point, a dear friend of mine said “DUDE, DO YOU REALIZE YOU’RE A SOCIAL PHENOM???”

I didn’t believe him back then, but it sure did feel good to have that edge over guys who were so afraid of approaching new people.

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What One Hour of Solid Time with ME can do for you

Here’s my review of Private Phone Conversation with Troy D. Man, I so didn’t believe all the hype at first. My good friend recommended him from the start but before the call I thought “man no fucking way this dude pulls 10’s in the hottest clubs, gets ALL his clients these sick results, and can teach you more through some cheap skype program he made than any “PUA” (Think R*D, V*** d*******, and everything out there. I know instructors personally, I know interns, I know what actual results guys get) bootcamp”…well the thing is he does it all and there’s no hype…no theory…and it’s all about the results.

I am the last guy who would believe this since I have gotten some pretty decent results without any training. So I annoyingly bombarded Troy with over 50 questions trying to get him to give me something other than saying “I am not going to sell this to you. You see the results posted.” And I thought…how the hell can 40+ people lie about this and have pictures and detailed explanations to back it all up? It’s because it’s not hype, it’s all real.

One guy (not named) I spoke to told me that “Troy is all about the clubs and making you look like a pimp IN THE CLUB” (with an emphasis on in the club, knowing that I like to meet women everywhere…campus…malls…lounges…and clubs/bars…not just clubs). He was out to get Troy so he pulled some bull alpha nice routine. I bought it and for a long time I didn’t even consider working with Troy because I had that in mind. HUGE LIE. Troy does everything. How else do his students pull hot CEO’s and Italian 10’s during the day and then still dominate at night? I think the guy was jealous. Asshole.

Yeah I’ve had a tons of realizations and this is on the same day I did the call. Number one, before all this pickup bs I had everything I needed to get everything that I wanted…I was already that attractive guy and I already had all that attention from hot women….but being a guy I thought “sweet this pickup thing is how to get crazy consistent results!”, I am sorry to those of you reading this while listening to some theory audio or on some PUA site but it really isn’t. It will mess you up, it will get girls who are already into you to think “WTF HAPPENED TO THE HOT GUY I MET 5 MIN AGO” before you pull some dishonest game thing that you wouldn’t have said if you hadn’t heard it from some PUA guy.

Troy taught me how to become that 24/7 attractive guy and it was all customized to my lifestyle and to who I am. Before the call talked about my background, issues with escalating, and my goals to make sure it was all customized to me. One call and it just clicked.

My old way of showing justified interest felt fake and wasn’t doing anything for me. The girls were into me and I was ignoring it to ‘run game’. When a girl tells you within 2 minutes of hanging out ‘YOU SHOULD TOTALLY COME OUT AND PARTY WITH ME SOON” it is not time to ask an open ended question…or to state your interest in a fake gamey way. Troy taught me it’s Lead or leave. You say “YEAH! That sounds like a blast!” and get her number. And that was a situation I had before 1 call with Troy. Well guess what….before Troy instead of more leading I ran ‘game’ asked too many unneeded questions (who wants to get into deep connections, that’s no fun) and although I did call her sexy the reason was so fake (cause you’re motivated and spontaneous? NO!) and if it felt fake to me then it did to her. X=X. Long story short, her friends invited her and I to hang out…instead I tell my buddy ill be there in a minute - grab her number (she looked sad right then and there like ARE YOU SERIOUS….WTF? The vibe was ruined as soon as I said that and it felt so weird as she put her number into my phone…) and left. If I had my call with Troy it would have ended in us hooking up or setting up REAL plans to see each other soon. A quality girl needs to see more of you even if she likes your first impression….this is why pickup guys suck…they can’t be that attractive guy later. This is why all their numbers flake. They’re dishonest with girls and try to fool them. Troy’s way is more like: If she’s into what you’re into - there you go justified interest - now lead it somewhere “hey im going to the sofa to sit down and relax, come say hi later if you want’. It’s that easy. Be willing to walk away from anything….cause the women who are into you will like you for you…Troy will teach you to become the most attractive you possible without changing who you are whatsoever.

By reading Troy’s blog I knew he could write good stuff…but until I heard him break it down and customize it FOR ME it just didn’t click. 1 call and I see things differently. I know how to lead women towards what we both want, create a pipeline of quality girls coming into my life, have the right mindsets (Being a hot guy with bad mindsets YOU WILL STILL FAIL TO BE HAPPY, trust me. This is EXACTLY ME, I didn’t believe what I was seeing while girls were practically screaming I LIKE YOU!!!!), and I never have to actually think of what to do next: I do what I want I say what I want….I am 100% honest and I know that by being that way I will only attract women who are right for me. X=X, it’s the truth.

J-Dizzle

Montreal Canada

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Inner Circle Student Success Story: GIRLFRIEND STOLEN!

There are just some students that are so cool that they end up becoming my real friends, and seriously you don’t wanna know what messages I get from them every now and then, or you might jump off a building.

It was so flawless I HAD to ask for a PLAY BY PLAY which I knew, the way I taught him, would be executed MASTERFULLY (none of that weak algorithm crap)…So without further ado, here’s to my homeboys!

Troy….I just got back from a date…

OK, so this chick from my pipeline, recently became hot so i started to notice, and when I met her, I knew that she would always have a boyfriend! haha

After awhile we met at starbucks because i had to catch up find out what was going on in her life. Right when she started telling me her bf problems i just listened then said…i know ur a smart girl u can deal w that

Plus she knows me..but still point is it helps when you’re just being an awesome guy. SO, i told her look u worry about your bf all day…when you’re w me i just want u to have fun and stop thinking about it tdtroy10: HAHAHAHAHAHA

Then i just use double relates, humor…kino Then finding gold in mundane things..and we were relating

Bounced her to the club after…. she said had class the next day at 7 but she still went w me…so escalate on the kino slowly…and i just dont pay much attention to her when she’s quiet, sneak in a kiss here and there..and the smirk you taught me that was LETHAL!

Time came she had to go i got her cab…and she wouldnt stop texting after that…then tonight i jst stated my intent i wana see her again we go out drinkin w her girlfriends, so I bring our swiss friends…absolutely no game went on…just fun

I snuck in holding her hand under the table w normal conversation she doesn’t like PDA so i was just sneaky

Then I started telling her stuff that u know i really wana kiss u..but not right now…im the private kinda guy then shifted her eyes from her to her friends….so after that release tension after a while….I start again i just say i wanna tell u something..i just whisper but cover my face i actually kiss her sa cheek..in front of her sister…sister was fucking clueless… Then she accused me of bein drunk and i said i dont need to be drunk or u to be drunk for me to do that…..she laughed i just manhandled isolate….sister asks where u goin she goes oh just gonna see his ride…GAME OVER…we started making out heavily in the corner…

I also told her i liked her but i said no commitments i just wanna be the one u wana have fun with or some shit like that She said Okay….but she wants to hitch me though…she said how long do u think u want it to be this way to like get me commitmitted hahahahaha!

So i said that I’m still dating around….but of course I told her you’re my number one hahahaha!

Oh, when I  stated my intent…about having a non commitment she puts her finger on my lip and says hush hush.its ok theres no need to say more….and smiles and winks

Her sister knows she has a bf, and all i did was some major conspiracy eye contact! LOL

She texts me back saying “I wish you were the guy I’m in love with”

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Its amazing when you don’t need to use any routines, and just be THAT GUY!

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Troy’s FEELGOOD Playlist 1st Half of January 09

Hey guys!

Back in my facebook stuff, I used to post a bunch of play lists that made me feel good. Soon enough I had some of my closest friends ask me for some of the songs I thought made me feel awesome and all dynamo.

In light of that, i decided to make my FEELGOOD PLAYLIST monthly for our Masterlife readers and future clients

1) JOHN LEGEND FEAT. ANDRE 3000 - “GREEN LIGHT”

Ever since i heard John legend’s stuff i’ve considered it to be part of my “mellow times” when I’d chill and just smile. Definitely one of those hits you wanna play in your ride with your friends or before going out. And let’s not forget the video for Save Room. Isn’t that what we all want? lol

2) SQUAREHEADS “HAPPY”

A REAL OLD HIT that made its way back to my playlist after December’s Lifestyle retreat with my inner circle of friends. I don’t know how many times I’d hear this song wednesdays and saturdays but its still in my head.

3) JIM JONES “POP CHAMPAIGNE”

Its amazing how producers can take some simple beats, and create such a bumpin’ masterpiece. It only took me one listen to include this on my mainstay list. It also doesn’t hurt to think about taking a bottle of moet and spraying it in the air. Oh yeah, and that’s not Jim Jones. That’s me and my closest friends

4) MOONY “FLYING AWAY” HOUSE REMIX

Here’s another last song syndrome song that just makes me feeeeeeeelgoooooood. Unfortunately, the only place I found this song is on youtube with a really cheesy fanmade video. If anyone has the mp3 version, please email me!!

5) EVERYTHING BUT THE GIRL - “FIVE FATHOMS”

The metropolitan scenery in the video is what hooked me in the beginning. But, eventually as I listened on I got hooked to the song.

6) ARTFUL DODGER - “PLEASE DON’T TURN ME ON”

Classic, always got me feeelin’ groovy. Old UK Hit back in like, 2006 that never gets old. Lyrics are pretty tight too. “PLEASSSEE DON’T TURN MEE ONNNNNNNNN!!!”

7) STONE TEMPLE PILOTS - “INTERSTATE LOVE SONG”

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