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The YOUNG GUNZ - our Pillars of a Natural Alumni from High School chime in and show their older counterparts they know more shit than them! I’m pissed these guys are learning it as early as 16!
How Lifestyle keeps you from being needy.
Dimensions! The favorite subject of this podcast and the subject at hand for Champions of Choice 10 (The Year-ender)…here’s a taste!
The Parallels of Working out and TDD - Rafa, Dan and Troy Discuss
The Word on Day Game versus Night/Club Game - now that its fuckin’ 2010 people are still hung over it.
Conservative Women,Girls in School, Prejudging things and overhype
Blanking out when you go out to approach women: The Antidote Discussed
Troy and Nash talk extensively about The SEXUAL Dimension - the key to stop just “trying” to be sexual
Conforming to Society and Being Likeable - INSTANT DEATH According to TDD
How to change your Social Circle’s Perceptions of You if they’re not used to you being sexual, THREE DIFFERENT WAYS!
The TDD RULE OF COOL
Why we hit the clubs hard when we do boot camps. The answer? It’s a skill set thing…
Wow, look at how time flies. That's how young
I was when I started coaching.
Hey Guys,
With TDD blowing up in the scene, one can’t help but compare our company to Pick Up Artist companies that are around. We have tons of critics who try to sincerely define what makes us different from everybody else. Well, the answers are all over the site, but I believe that if you scratch the surface further, you’ll find what makes us different. Let me tell you about my story.
I’m not going to lie and say I never tried that Pick Up Artist stuff. To be honest, I bumped into some David D way back in ‘03, and ever since a girl hopped on my bed from a sleep over to make out with me, I was really like “Whoa, this stuff f*cking works!” It was amusing to know that someone had put some structure in all of this, and despite having more than decent results in the past, I used my office printer (yes, I did that) and started printing articles and hand outs for me to keep. It was fun to learn the sweet science of getting women.
Early 2004, I had moved to San Antonio for my military duty, and I was new to the city. Knowing nobody, I thought that the Pick Up Bandwagon would be in town and all I had to do was to raise a flag and hope someone sees it (on the internet). Before I knew it, I had met my first set of friends there, and eventually the camaraderie brought me to become the president of our local “lair” or chapter of Pick Up Artists. A lot of the guys put me in the leadership position due to the skills I had shown them in the field and the results of those interactions.
From AM to PM - The $20 Seminar that Made Me
This experience brought me to teach my first ever seminar, which resulted in humongous results. Its funny I’m sharing this because these photos are about 5 to 6 years old. The more I taught, the more the word spread. I had no blog, or affiliate, or nothing. People wanted to know who I was, to the point where I had people flying in from Canada, Los Angeles, and South America just to train. I didn’t have any money at the time - I bought a white board, some markers, and would take them at the back of my Corolla. I was teaching these camps every weekend in Super 8’s, Motel 6’s and Country Lodge’s. I charged a mere $250 for a weekend with me. I didn’t care. I knew that it took time and exposure for people to listen but when it happened things would spread like wildfire.
With a constant exposure to men who fumbled a lot with women, and whom I had converted to “see the light.” I was hungry to become an expert in the field - I tried different concepts, got myself in unfamiliar situations, and then eventually met people who were actual Pick Up Artists and Gurus. I had met “naturals”, young millionaires, and bumped into more successful people by the day. Due to my skills to break down tons of information, I then noticed that there were some things that made one guy a tad more successful than the other - Something we’re going to tackle heavily on the next Champions of Choice.
I was very lucky that I chose this business, because eventually the rumors spread and I got picked up by a huge global dating company back then. This, I said, was going to be the window to the world - and it was. Being one of the most notable superstars in the company, the job took me places - from all around the United States, to Europe, and to various parts of Asia. I was blessed because this provided the outlet for me to shine and prove that there was more to picking up women - it was about being a solid man with a very strong sense of self, and a lifestyle that allowed growth and personal development. I did this for the next 4 years of my life, nonstop.
In the beginning it was okay, but as time went by things got more ridiculous. More theories, more products to confuse people, and a lot more people without the foundations handled were getting into it and naming themselves as experts. Kids with no self-identity started getting enormously happy when they got a phone number. To add to that, multitudes of men kept following this stuff blindly and kept pumping cash into the coffers of these guys who weren’t legit. I was witness to tons of really good guys wasting their time learning this stuff. It was embarrassing, and it got bad in a minute. From there I had decided I didn’t want that element in my life anymore.
I realized that it wasn’t going to be easy to leave that life, because of some mental conditioning I had undergone. Luckily, I didn’t do so much of the PUA stuff that things weren’t fully ingrained yet. I also had to remind myself that I had laid a hundred women before I tried this stuff. Just like my first milestone with women, I made another self inventory and realized that the same skills I had were constant, and so to prevent further head fuckery that unfortunately many guys are having now thanks to the PUA stuff, I decided to quit being affiliated with PUA’s.
With the changing tides, I became more and more confident as our students kept living the life - of prosperity in all areas of life. I had turned my back to the industry and I had to find in myself what we needed as mantra for the new company, the new social movement that is now TDD. We currently operate all around the world, teaching scores and scores of men the path to becoming well-balanced, well-aware, and powerful people.
I had to evaluate myself and look at my strengths. What was constant during the whole thing? Before, during, and after? I had come up with less than a handful of things that hopefully you guys can take with you as a foundational piece of your personality and your game.
One of them is Energy - It never died or withered over the years. Ever since I was a little boy I had the sheer enthusiasm and curiosity to figure out what life had to offer. I was lucky enough to have a supportive family, who didn’t try to put me down or tell me things weren’t possible. They allowed me to imagine, apply, and talk about my thoughts boldly. If you have such people in your life, keep them. If you have the opposite, start an evacuation operation. You don’t need people stopping you from choosing to be great.
To most guys, I know this is old news, but tapping into your child-like core is one of the best things ever. Most men try to suppress it, but killing that part of you means killing your boldness and VIBE. If you’re a 25 year old male who has never tried a rollercoaster ride or at least had one food fight in your life, then you’re seriously missing out.
Understand that Energy is contagious. It’s the wavelength that people latch onto quick. If you ask me if I had a split-second test of attractiveness, start hanging out with a little toddler who has no prejudgments in this world - he or she would not know your status, or how much money you have in your bank, or anything more. But there is one thing toddlers will latch onto, and that is vibe. They can tell if you have it or not and that can ultimately tell your sex appeal.
Going back to energy, I believe that mine is continuous for 3 Main Reasons - My life purpose, my enthusiasm and enjoyment in meeting people, and the way I keep my body healthy and fit.
If there’s anything that gets people excited, it’s the future, the goal, the reward that they set for themselves in life. “Eyes on the Prize,” my mentor once said. If you keep your eyes on the goal nothing can truly stop you. You can weather any storm; ignore stupid critics who try to put you down, or any other roadblocks like the lack of money or resources, if you know that ultimately all your efforts have an end goal that is supremely sweet.
Moreover, this is where you start channeling your energy - to your life purpose. Understand that energy must be managed. At some point we have a threshold and get tired and will need rest. It’s a matter of taking that energy, not using it for useless means - daydreaming, vices, spending on useless things - and just expend it on realistic goals that align with your purpose.
How do you find your purpose? For me, I simply asked myself - what thing would make me the most happy, give me the best pay off, and something I’d do even if I didn’t get the pay off. (confusing, I know). And that’s when I found training or coaching people a big deal to me. Through my first job as a sales trainer, I had affected the livelihoods and the purpose of others for 3 straight years. I had motivated hundreds of people to find their purpose in life much like how TDD is now with men. Also, take note that I’d do it even if I was tired, or overworked, or underpaid. One of the reasons why I have an edge over my competitors is that I actually enjoy this, which means I can spend eternal hours honing onto my tradecraft non-stop. More importantly, I enjoyed my interactions with my students, my mentors, and people I hung out with. - Therefore even adding more energy to the pool.
Its the same energy that attracts like minded people to us, and deters the people we don’t want. We want the “BAM” guys - the ones who want to spark the change in their lives and are willing to go through hell and back to do it. No shortcuts, no weird ways, just the path that we lay out - because our results are exponential - they grow by the day.
I hope that this manifesto makes you guys understand where we’re coming from, and the philosophy that is TDD. If its not enough, a few minutes browsing the site should solidify it for you.
Wow, you got her laughing huh? Get over it pal,
there’s more to that if you want to make her your girlfriend.
This CAN BE an intermediate skill article, but I believe its important and can benefit anybody, whether they’re a beginner or not because this will show you exactly how the skillsets here are used live and in the field.
For the lucky ones that are around me more than others, they usually say one thing: That I don’t waste ANY MOVES.
You don’t see me standing around and jumping on every opportunity, opening anybody and getting in their way, but when you see me come in, 9 times out of 10 its a wrap. It may not even be a Keys to the VIP-esque interaction at first, but in the end, with my dick as my witness, I usually take it home.
More importantly, I am able to subtly set up those moves. More often than none before I even approach a girl I’ve set things up to where I have a heavily armed precedent along the way, so when I get there its as easy as breathing and even if I don’t get the reaction I want, I’ll get them either way.
I’ve seen a lot of my counterparts, especially other coaches from other schools, and they don’t have this element in their game because of two things - and its funny I’m giving their weakness away so you can bet they’ll be arguing about this on their sales pitches to you guys, but their game is heavily LINEAR and heavily REACTIONARY. Its the burden they have to pay for being such “good pick up artists.” They truly have to nitpick their performances with every girl and check their reactions and have an appropriate rebuttal for those reactions. And if you guys have been listening to us, this all contributes to an ultimate failure in the Dilutent Effect. By the way, the Dilutent Effect happens when the interaction has truly lost its true sexual or romantic purpose because of overdoing it.
Continue Reading to see how you can make these Pick Up Yahoos look like beginners by appearing to do nothing…
For those of you who are TOTALLY NEW (and thank God for that), IOI’s are an acronym for ” Indicators of Interest”: Signs that the woman likes you - like touching you, saying a verbal compliment, or brushing her hair. These so-called PUAs say that you gotta look for them to move forward (and how that fucks them up in the field of getting laid or getting a girlfriend, I’ll explain in another time.)
On this RECENT REPORT, our Bad-Ass Instructor from Chicago, Marinetti, bares all on how doing that is pointless to look for IOI’s and how he, like other guys in our stable, get laid even when there are ZERO indicators during the first meeting.
Here it is, finally! To all those who loved his Sexual Eye Contact Video and want more Aaron Dan, we at TDD are all about showcasing more about our high-level instructors! To those who may not know it, Aaron has been an addition to the family ever since mid-2007.
Aaron has always been a “nice guy” in the sense that he has a great outlook in life, beaming smile, and generally friendly attitude with people. This is why numerous clients love learning from him in the field because he’s very comfortable to hang around with and to learn from. But watch out, this “nice guy with game” goes from zero to sixty when he sets his eyes on a beautiful woman he wants. He doesn’t hesitate to cut through the dance floor and unleash his skill set when needed. He also has what Troy calls, the “Zen like Patience,” and relatively chill attitude that makes him seduce women with such a subtlety that can’t be immediately observed by the naked eye.
After moving to Dallas and testing his skills in both the day and night scene for months with the crew, Aaron decided he had what it took and started apprenticing on Troy’s camps.
On nearly every camp, Aaron learned more and refined his game to a very consistent level, even pulling extremely attractive women on almost every camp he winged on. He has been mentioned by Timmy as “the guy who never makes mistakes in the field.” This is due to his incredible thirst for consistency and actually being an amazing executor of both the MACRO and the MICRO aspects of the game as taught here in TDD.
Don’t believe it? Check out this guy’s Recent Lay Report (and awesome) Breakdown from his last PI (Private Instruction) just a week ago in Austin Texas.
Have you seen the Tucker Max trailer? Because every time I watch the thing it makes me want to look forward to today’s debauchery. He kind of reminds me of myself a lot of times!
A bit of background history for new players out there. I have been working with Troy since early 2006 and amidst being an Instructor for the TDD Global Family I am also one of his oldest students, inner-circle confidants, and key wing men. After Three years of teaching back to back boot camps I decided to finally join the team in further pursuit of excellence and will be teaching at the Dubai Comprehensive Camp on November 5-7, 2009, before the year ends with a bang (literally).
In addition, I have been one of the oldest constituents of “Natural Game” when Troy introduced his own science of doing it three years ago. My current local crew, Natural Seduction or NatSed for short, has seen many, many successes in the field over the years, and more importantly, consistent successes, as well as growth socially and independently as people.
Currently, I work as a promoter for a huge club franchise and a business analyst. I have probably met, dated, and slept with more women than you could count your fingers and toes with (times 50), and the women keep coming. I have to say though that the journey wasn’t easy and it took time and hard work to get there. I also write for a few magazines on pertinent dating articles and sex.
It’s really funny that the report I’m going to share with you guys brings me back to reminisce the good old days from two years ago. Its funny when you already have that Social Superpower and you literally go back to where you started and just unleash swaggeriffic mayhem. I don’t know if you guys like College Chicks, but I love em’ to death.
So you want to dominate a College Bar eh? Keep Reading
Ever wonder why there’s a very short PUA shelf life? A lot of these guys literally fall off the map after, at the most, 2-3 years of doing it. I’ve been around for several years, and that’s around 3 PUA lives (lol), and so I’ve seen people try this shit out and literally drop like flies as time passes. Not because they got an awesome girlfriend, but because they just plain fell off.
After all that hard effort, work, time reading books and ebooks, and most of all, money, they realized that DOing this isn’t really for them. The main complaint there is that they haven’t gotten women that they want. If they ever got laid it was from some sloppy seconds drunk girl or a girl they never really were attracted to in the first place, and they wake up everyday questioning their own attractiveness because their method of attracting women is operation-based. It’s a method of DOing, not BEing. So, just like a computer program, to attract a girl they need to boot the computer, wait for it to work, key the password in, and so on. If they can’t get the DOing off the ground, they’re pretty much screwed.
Knock through enough doors and you’ll get a result; Keep practicing and you’ll get it. Keep approaching and you’ll get the girl - are some of the advice that you’ll probably get in the PUA world. Well. we’ve seen some very surprising results from some guys like this guy from a popular PUA school (and trust me, guys who come to us are humble enough to share very similar results)
My PUA Statistics (from two years of going out 6 days a week)
Approaches: 1,216
Dates: 21
Makeouts: 6
Lays: ZERO
Mathematically speaking, if you are going over a wide spectrum of women, and you play a law of averages (meaning knock more doors and you’ll get a result), with a very FLAWED linear technique (which predicates on getting the number, getting the kiss, some bullshit like that), then expect your results of finding, having, and keeping an awesome woman in your life to be ON THE NEGATIVE. Even with 2-3 years of doing this crap, it won’t happen.
That’s why we don’t play that game. Here at TDD, we carefully assess what type of women we want, create a macro and micro plan, create our social networks around it, and control only two variables (how we project ourselves and our logistics), and from there, its damn easy. There is no pressure, anxiety, or what not, because we are for certain that even mathematically speaking we are operating under a Niche of women we want and since we are trained to get the women we want, then that’s what we’re gonna get — in multiples of 10 per month or more.
I’ve met guys who have a miserable lay rate of less than 2 every 7 months, and whether they admit it or not, everyday these guys wake up they are pretty half-assed with their confidence level. They don’t know if women truly like them for who they are, or if they sort of “conned” those 2 women into kissing them or bedding them. What’s worse is that they have to operate to get women in a certain “state” to get a kiss or a reaction or what not. Then it explodes in their face when they realize that women are NOT in state all the time and they are forgotten a few days later after they take a number.
Look, the bottom line is, is that this is a game not worth playing. People who play linear pick up hokey pokey don’t have a shelf life of more than 2 years. Its either they have nothing better to do in life, which is why they’re in it to do the weekend warrior thing, or they truly believe it will work. These guys dissect books, articles, anything to understand the microcosm of the interaction. But really it doesn’t mean a thing. Women don’t care about the verbal back and forth, they want a guy who has his shit down and can attract women because of his being and his leadership abilities.
So, what exactly do you need?
Think Niche Theory: You need to know what women you want, and know that in a specific and realistic manner, and that’s who you go for. Don’t just stick to “smart” or “intelligent” because those traits are relative. Get specific with it, and truly assess deep inside if that’s what you want. Tons of guys “on paper” want the witty type, but sometimes girls like that can be truly annoying (take it from a guy who’s fucked a few dozen). If you ask me, I like a girl who’s comfortable in her own skin and has the confidence to joke around and not get offended. See, that’s specific and realistic. In my old days I met this guy who went to the bookstore doing day game for several years, because he thought he wanted an “intelligent” girl…later when i coached him we both found out that he didn’t want a Math wiz or a PhD holder, he just wanted a girl who was street smart. Boy did he waste seven years. Know where they flock, what social networks they are connected in, and start immersing yourself. More importantly, have FUN with who you want to be with. No one takes pleasure being with a girl they have to constantly prove themselves to, its all about being a girl you’ll be happy with.
Lets look at our Forum Social Elite, Rico, who clearly has dominated the Salsa Niche. I don’t see this guy so often now because he teaches, competes interstate in Congresses, as well as spends around 20+ hours dancing and evolving his craft of self-expression. He’s also got his logistics down (loves the jacuzzi), and so come the house parties (with those pretty girls he pulls from his NICHE). Mofo knows his Niche! Let’s not even talk about this guy’s ridiculous pipeline of hot girls.
Create a Logistical Plan - We all know Logistics is 70-80% of the game, and if you listened to Julian’s podcast, its something that all of us consider first over everything. its also where lifestyle comes in because its where you bring your women into. If you have a pretty empty lifestyle stop for a minute and don’t even try picking up women. There’s no point. Start building a social network, make friends, get into a few hobbies you like, and maybe those things will help you grow some serious balls to escalate.
Stick to ONLY Controlling your VIBE and Logistics - You want pressure off your back? You want all your anxieties relieved? You want to not think and be in your head all the time? Then stop trying to control women and the situation. Its not spontaneous, and from her perspective you look like a real weird nutcase for thinking about the next step. Look, having the logistical game plan is something that takes LOADS off your back. If you stop caring about controlling the verbiage, her friends, the progression of the interaction and stick to just projecting the right vibes (we have 4 Vibes in TDD - Fun, Charismatic, Sexual and Dominant), then you can pretty much gauge the result of the interaction because of the key TDD concept, X = X (you attract what you project). If you project the fun vibe, girls who want to have fun will latch on, if you switch to sexual, it goes sexual, and so on. Look, women and situations are like sand castles. You try to take sand off the beach and squeeze it, and it falls off the more you do. Forget about it. Just build yourself, master the 4 Vibes and calibrate them when needed and you won’t have to worry about the outcome.
I have had the incredible luck to be brought up around the winner’s circle nearly every year of my adult life. Ever since I was around 20, I had been exposed to an inordinate amount of self-improvement mantras, life lessons, ways to expand empires, and player talk. The conversation around the table always revolved around mental toughness, preparation, success stories, women and what not. My mentors, friends, partners, and certain family members who also helped create the framework of TDD shared knowledge freely, so for me my young adult years was a living classroom every day.
Growing up, I had hung around a lot with my first mentor, a person I always looked up to and someone I worked and lived with for a couple of years. I mirrored his game a lot. His game was always being fun and enjoyable, but disconnecting and leaving women wanting more. I spent much of my young adult years around him, and he helped me both in life lessons and in gaming women. I copied his archetype to a tee, choosing to be the “the big kid who has his shit together” archetype, that won many hearts and dropped many panties. Later on I met another important hallmark, my cousin, who I saw pull women as early as 12, and when he hit 16 I watched him single-handedly create intense female magnetism by his dance moves. I vowed to learn as much as I could and eventually I was able to create a style of my own. I also had numerous mentors and family help expand other areas of my life. Eventually, through massive experience, I was able to develop my own set of rules, techniques, and strategies, which is what I share with numerous students, and now with you guys, the viewers of the site.
It is normal to decide you want to make a change in your life. It is PUA weird to make sudden and bizarre changes without understanding the underlying reason for such changes.
It is normal to decide you need to update your wardrobe, so you look for clothes that look good and you, and purchase them. It is PUA weird to blindly copy a bizarre and ludicrous ’style’ simply because a manic-depressive magician says it’s the right thing to do.
It is normal to think about ways to better yourself, and to ponder what exactly makes women and men attracted to each other. It is PUA weird to memorize routines as a cop-out because you don’t think you’re good enough to talk to girls that you rate on a number scale.
It is normal to build self-confidence. It’s something we all need to learn. It is PUA weird to self-hypontize, chant mantras, or whatever the hell else you do for hours on end in your bedroom, thinking this will change how you act.
It is normal to want to change your habits, and to put in the work to do so. It is PUA weird to look for ’shortcuts’ to change your habits for you, shortcuts that take time and money that does not help you.
It is normal to want to be good in bed. It is PUA weird to think that groups of clunky and awkward dudes are gonna help you achieve that goal.
It is normal to seek something better. It is PUA weird to try to change your outward appearance while doing nothing to your character itself.
It is normal to go home and have downtime, relax, and enjoy whatever it is you enjoy in life. It is really REALLY PUA weird to keyboard jockey on forums for hours at a time, and then pretend that you’re an expert. If you spend that much time in your head, then you are an expert… in your head. Too bad there’s only voices to keep you company.
I am not ashamed to let people know about my life. I surround myself with people and activities that I love. You should too. Anything else is mental masturbation - it may feel good, but anything you accomplish is going to be going down the toilet in a couple minutes anyway.
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