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Wow, look at how time flies. That's how young
I was when I started coaching.
Hey Guys,
With TDD blowing up in the scene, one can’t help but compare our company to Pick Up Artist companies that are around. We have tons of critics who try to sincerely define what makes us different from everybody else. Well, the answers are all over the site, but I believe that if you scratch the surface further, you’ll find what makes us different. Let me tell you about my story.
I’m not going to lie and say I never tried that Pick Up Artist stuff. To be honest, I bumped into some David D way back in ‘03, and ever since a girl hopped on my bed from a sleep over to make out with me, I was really like “Whoa, this stuff f*cking works!” It was amusing to know that someone had put some structure in all of this, and despite having more than decent results in the past, I used my office printer (yes, I did that) and started printing articles and hand outs for me to keep. It was fun to learn the sweet science of getting women.
Early 2004, I had moved to San Antonio for my military duty, and I was new to the city. Knowing nobody, I thought that the Pick Up Bandwagon would be in town and all I had to do was to raise a flag and hope someone sees it (on the internet). Before I knew it, I had met my first set of friends there, and eventually the camaraderie brought me to become the president of our local “lair” or chapter of Pick Up Artists. A lot of the guys put me in the leadership position due to the skills I had shown them in the field and the results of those interactions.
From AM to PM - The $20 Seminar that Made Me
This experience brought me to teach my first ever seminar, which resulted in humongous results. Its funny I’m sharing this because these photos are about 5 to 6 years old. The more I taught, the more the word spread. I had no blog, or affiliate, or nothing. People wanted to know who I was, to the point where I had people flying in from Canada, Los Angeles, and South America just to train. I didn’t have any money at the time - I bought a white board, some markers, and would take them at the back of my Corolla. I was teaching these camps every weekend in Super 8’s, Motel 6’s and Country Lodge’s. I charged a mere $250 for a weekend with me. I didn’t care. I knew that it took time and exposure for people to listen but when it happened things would spread like wildfire.
With a constant exposure to men who fumbled a lot with women, and whom I had converted to “see the light.” I was hungry to become an expert in the field - I tried different concepts, got myself in unfamiliar situations, and then eventually met people who were actual Pick Up Artists and Gurus. I had met “naturals”, young millionaires, and bumped into more successful people by the day. Due to my skills to break down tons of information, I then noticed that there were some things that made one guy a tad more successful than the other - Something we’re going to tackle heavily on the next Champions of Choice.
I was very lucky that I chose this business, because eventually the rumors spread and I got picked up by a huge global dating company back then. This, I said, was going to be the window to the world - and it was. Being one of the most notable superstars in the company, the job took me places - from all around the United States, to Europe, and to various parts of Asia. I was blessed because this provided the outlet for me to shine and prove that there was more to picking up women - it was about being a solid man with a very strong sense of self, and a lifestyle that allowed growth and personal development. I did this for the next 4 years of my life, nonstop.
In the beginning it was okay, but as time went by things got more ridiculous. More theories, more products to confuse people, and a lot more people without the foundations handled were getting into it and naming themselves as experts. Kids with no self-identity started getting enormously happy when they got a phone number. To add to that, multitudes of men kept following this stuff blindly and kept pumping cash into the coffers of these guys who weren’t legit. I was witness to tons of really good guys wasting their time learning this stuff. It was embarrassing, and it got bad in a minute. From there I had decided I didn’t want that element in my life anymore.
I realized that it wasn’t going to be easy to leave that life, because of some mental conditioning I had undergone. Luckily, I didn’t do so much of the PUA stuff that things weren’t fully ingrained yet. I also had to remind myself that I had laid a hundred women before I tried this stuff. Just like my first milestone with women, I made another self inventory and realized that the same skills I had were constant, and so to prevent further head fuckery that unfortunately many guys are having now thanks to the PUA stuff, I decided to quit being affiliated with PUA’s.
With the changing tides, I became more and more confident as our students kept living the life - of prosperity in all areas of life. I had turned my back to the industry and I had to find in myself what we needed as mantra for the new company, the new social movement that is now TDD. We currently operate all around the world, teaching scores and scores of men the path to becoming well-balanced, well-aware, and powerful people.
I had to evaluate myself and look at my strengths. What was constant during the whole thing? Before, during, and after? I had come up with less than a handful of things that hopefully you guys can take with you as a foundational piece of your personality and your game.
One of them is Energy - It never died or withered over the years. Ever since I was a little boy I had the sheer enthusiasm and curiosity to figure out what life had to offer. I was lucky enough to have a supportive family, who didn’t try to put me down or tell me things weren’t possible. They allowed me to imagine, apply, and talk about my thoughts boldly. If you have such people in your life, keep them. If you have the opposite, start an evacuation operation. You don’t need people stopping you from choosing to be great.
To most guys, I know this is old news, but tapping into your child-like core is one of the best things ever. Most men try to suppress it, but killing that part of you means killing your boldness and VIBE. If you’re a 25 year old male who has never tried a rollercoaster ride or at least had one food fight in your life, then you’re seriously missing out.
Understand that Energy is contagious. It’s the wavelength that people latch onto quick. If you ask me if I had a split-second test of attractiveness, start hanging out with a little toddler who has no prejudgments in this world - he or she would not know your status, or how much money you have in your bank, or anything more. But there is one thing toddlers will latch onto, and that is vibe. They can tell if you have it or not and that can ultimately tell your sex appeal.
Going back to energy, I believe that mine is continuous for 3 Main Reasons - My life purpose, my enthusiasm and enjoyment in meeting people, and the way I keep my body healthy and fit.
If there’s anything that gets people excited, it’s the future, the goal, the reward that they set for themselves in life. “Eyes on the Prize,” my mentor once said. If you keep your eyes on the goal nothing can truly stop you. You can weather any storm; ignore stupid critics who try to put you down, or any other roadblocks like the lack of money or resources, if you know that ultimately all your efforts have an end goal that is supremely sweet.
Moreover, this is where you start channeling your energy - to your life purpose. Understand that energy must be managed. At some point we have a threshold and get tired and will need rest. It’s a matter of taking that energy, not using it for useless means - daydreaming, vices, spending on useless things - and just expend it on realistic goals that align with your purpose.
How do you find your purpose? For me, I simply asked myself - what thing would make me the most happy, give me the best pay off, and something I’d do even if I didn’t get the pay off. (confusing, I know). And that’s when I found training or coaching people a big deal to me. Through my first job as a sales trainer, I had affected the livelihoods and the purpose of others for 3 straight years. I had motivated hundreds of people to find their purpose in life much like how TDD is now with men. Also, take note that I’d do it even if I was tired, or overworked, or underpaid. One of the reasons why I have an edge over my competitors is that I actually enjoy this, which means I can spend eternal hours honing onto my tradecraft non-stop. More importantly, I enjoyed my interactions with my students, my mentors, and people I hung out with. - Therefore even adding more energy to the pool.
Its the same energy that attracts like minded people to us, and deters the people we don’t want. We want the “BAM” guys - the ones who want to spark the change in their lives and are willing to go through hell and back to do it. No shortcuts, no weird ways, just the path that we lay out - because our results are exponential - they grow by the day.
I hope that this manifesto makes you guys understand where we’re coming from, and the philosophy that is TDD. If its not enough, a few minutes browsing the site should solidify it for you.
As promised from my Twitter post, here’s my “Feel Sexy” playlist that’s on my Ipod/Iphone. Its pretty updated and hiphopified, but definitely a powerful playlist to listen to.
1) Jamie Foxx - Blame it (on the A-a-a-a-a-alcohol)
2) The-Dream - Rockin’ that thang
3) Keri Hilson feat. Lil Wayne - Turnin me On
4) Mike Jones - Next to You
5) Jim Jones feat. Juelz Santana - Pop Champagne
6) Gorilla Zoe feat. Lil Wayne - Lost
7) Bow wow - You can get it All
8) Soulja Boy feat. Sammie - Kiss me thru the phone
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I also want to say, that our FITNESS FORUM has been very successful! I want to note our committed array of knowledgeable panelists there, namely Jared K, The Spartan, Aaron Lias, Tango, and the rest. Trust me, you guys are giving me a run for my money and I’m inspired to see everyone’s fitness journal on the site.
The TDD Family is steadily growing! Thanks to the referrals you guys are doing as well as the interest on what we do and the results we can produce. Believe me, we are working overtime all day everyday to make sure that the Family grows by the day. I am very pleased to be in the company of the amazing TDD Staff, as well as have truly qualified instructors in the stable who can bring you a great game plan as well as take you by the hand in-field to show you how its done. In the next few days we’re gonna start introducing our high-profile stable of instructors for you to get to know.
Finally, the Skype Program is up again! Officially starting yesterday, so if you want to learn the TDD system and have weekly, progressive results over less than a month, email me on getting you set up on the program. There is NO OTHER SYSTEM THAT CAN DO WHAT WE DO. At least not for a distance program. Our distance program beats the crap out of other companies’ live programs anyways. No matter where you are in your practice, I highly recommend working with me one on one on the skype program. 60 plus people can’t be lying about the results I can give you.
I sometimes get asked how the heck did I know all of this…how I got my social intuition and experiences. To that, I simply say “I got lucky.”
Got lucky that I went through that social shyness during child hood, to eventually getting myself out of that long dry spell when I entered college, loving hard and falling hard with my first girlfriend, and getting cheated on eventually as 2 years passed, then going into a “player stage” to feed my ego and deal with the extreme pain I was enduring… ended up sleeping with tons of women, but consequently hurting most of them, then quitting that toxic lifestyle and opting for an emotionally healthier dating life and changing my preferences towards women, to ending up with a great circle of friends, joining the military and ending up in Texas, finding out about an online community of pick up artists, to eventually getting very good, then doing my first ever boot camp for $20, then students got results, and people flocked to see me, then getting recognized for the results in ‘04, meeting great mentors and role models, being in the company of some amazing women, traveling to around 30 destinations, starring on TV, going through an FHM article and photo shoot, realizing who my TRUE friends are and who weren’t, ultimately leading to NOW with so much experiences and so many great people supporting me from around the globe. All 44,000 of you.
I got lucky, or maybe I didn’t?
All i know is that everything that is manifested around you comes from INSIDE YOU. A lot of what happened to me, both ups and downs happened because of what I felt inside me, and what my mind set was or how I saw myself. If good things and good karma comes, its probably because you’re great inside, and that you have very clean intentions and good goals for yourself. Its because you are a beacon of light, and your purpose is to be an example of goodness. If you help other people grow and realize their potential instead of hindering it, if you love and not hate, things just come. You eventually become “lucky.” On the other hand if you’re exactly the opposite, tons and tons of problems are bound to plague you.
My great mentor taught me this lesson as a hallmark lesson in life. I’ve had a hell of a weekend dealing with some issues and drama, and before I turn the leaf to the next chapter, I just had to write this up.
Back in my facebook stuff, I used to post a bunch of play lists that made me feel good. Soon enough I had some of my closest friends ask me for some of the songs I thought made me feel awesome and all dynamo.
In light of that, i decided to make my FEELGOOD PLAYLIST monthly for our Masterlife readers and future clients
1) JOHN LEGEND FEAT. ANDRE 3000 - “GREEN LIGHT”
Ever since i heard John legend’s stuff i’ve considered it to be part of my “mellow times” when I’d chill and just smile. Definitely one of those hits you wanna play in your ride with your friends or before going out. And let’s not forget the video for Save Room. Isn’t that what we all want? lol
2) SQUAREHEADS “HAPPY”
A REAL OLD HIT that made its way back to my playlist after December’s Lifestyle retreat with my inner circle of friends. I don’t know how many times I’d hear this song wednesdays and saturdays but its still in my head.
3) JIM JONES “POP CHAMPAIGNE”
Its amazing how producers can take some simple beats, and create such a bumpin’ masterpiece. It only took me one listen to include this on my mainstay list. It also doesn’t hurt to think about taking a bottle of moet and spraying it in the air. Oh yeah, and that’s not Jim Jones. That’s me and my closest friends
4) MOONY “FLYING AWAY” HOUSE REMIX
Here’s another last song syndrome song that just makes me feeeeeeeelgoooooood. Unfortunately, the only place I found this song is on youtube with a really cheesy fanmade video. If anyone has the mp3 version, please email me!!
5) EVERYTHING BUT THE GIRL - “FIVE FATHOMS”
The metropolitan scenery in the video is what hooked me in the beginning. But, eventually as I listened on I got hooked to the song.
6) ARTFUL DODGER - “PLEASE DON’T TURN ME ON”
Classic, always got me feeelin’ groovy. Old UK Hit back in like, 2006 that never gets old. Lyrics are pretty tight too. “PLEASSSEE DON’T TURN MEE ONNNNNNNNN!!!”
So, I remember i met this chick at a little bar before, and just gave her good energy. Interaction didn’t last more than 10 minutes.
See her later after the party and take her number, give her mine, and figure out logistics.
Took her to my favorite sexcalation date, and did. We were having fun, built tension, and thereafter we were sensually making out.
Went back to her place, but an emergency (friend in need), made me not close the deal. She had such a hot body….ugh!
Since then…there’s been this lingering feeling of what “could have happened” in HER mind. We always had great chemistry, I reminded her.
She has a boyfriend now, and is “in love” but apparently she keeps asking me what my schedule is because she wants to get a massage together or see me. I can tell she wants to flip the script by saying “I’ll try to accomodate you” which i find funny because i never asked to be accomodated. With that i just said “cool”…and that I probably will need a place to stay…She wants exact dates on when I’ll be in town.LOL
Take note i never called her proactively or what not. Ahhh…the beauty of a lingering impression and a pipeline.
Speaking of emotional anchors that was a pretty strong one. I think at ANY TIME of my life i can sleep with this girl.
SO, key lesson. Don’t think short run, always think about conveying the right vibes (Fun, dominant, sexual and charismatic), and you’re good to go even if you don’t do ANYTHING.
I have gotten repeated requests on how to dissect some of my experiences and lessons from being and professionally teaching dating and attractiveness for 6 years now into some very concise articles. So, I have created a FREE Series called Troy’s Mindmap, in which i will have a host of relevant concepts dissected, from meeting women to relationships.
Today I decided to do Troy’s Relationship Management Mind Map 1/3
Back then i experimented with various roles and characters to see what was the most effective with meeting and keeping attractive and high quality women: I was the rock star, the entertainer, the aggressor, the laid back guy, the romantic, and the serious type. I believe all of these phases of learning were key to my success in figuring out things. My conclusion was that the better you become at tackling the basics and start gaining a butt load of experience, the more you’ll realize that you don’t need much of an effort to find and keep a very attractive woman. That’s why you’ll see a very attractive woman with a really chill dude who barely does nothing, and she provides him with everything — her beauty, her resources, her access to networks, and that amazing sex.
To some of you guys who are reading Self-Improvement books, are loaded with Positivity, and have so much “value to offer,” the following paragraphs might shock you and give you boys a dose of reality that you won’t like.
Women want dominance, but there is a missing ingredient in this that makes the male gene far more lethal and irresistible.
Imperfectness
Now, am I saying you should stop being positive, and being a value giver? NO. This is just an article for you guys to avoid really, really bad pitfalls you have encountered or might encounter soon.
There’s a problem with being too high-value or too positive.
By being too perfect, you will continually raise your status to not “high value”, but downright “Impossible to reach.”You’re just too damn good that women don’t feel any urge to really be involved in you. What really happens here is that you are shutting down a woman’s biological maternal instincts to care for you, serve and please you, as well as help you succeed.
Let me repeat that
A Woman’s biological maternal instinct is to
a) Care for you
b) Serve and Please you, and
c) Help you to succeed
Without this, a woman is going to lose her SENSE OF PURPOSE…she will lose her LOVE FOR INVOLVEMENT and before you know it she’ll be cheating on you with a broke, uneducated douschebag who had no one to spend Xmas with and asked to stay in with her.
She might be dating you now, but if you appear to be too perfect to her, at the back of her head she’s thinking you’re pretty “phony” or “fake”… there seem to be no problems with you and you’re probably keeping all of that bottled up and you don’t know how to emote — a normal human characteristic — hence the fakeness. What’s even worse is that down the line you take the role of “provider” and will have to provide in exchange for sex and other benefits from women.
Pretty Scary thought eh? Don’t worry guys I, and many of out fellow men have learned the hard way.
So without further ado, here are my BIG RELATIONSHIP TIPS for you excellent gents on how to handle yourself around women
Rule #1 Ask and you shall receive – let her know what makes you happy, what satisfies you, what pleasures you, and allow and encourage her to do those things. Whether its providing you with encouragement, emotional support, financial support or networking benefits, or really kinky, creative sexual acts. This, gentlemen, is KEY. If you don’t ask, how will she know, right?
Rule #2 Get Mad every once in awhile – its not always “all good” and you should let her know when she’s crossed the line every now and then. I will reiterate what i said earlier that the ability to emote is a normal human emotion. It means you’re REAL and normal.
Rule #3 Act Silly — acting silly is just great because it shows that you have uncontrollable tendencies. Shouting “Whoooohoooooo!”, singing loudly in the shower, and walking around the room naked with her are some examples (Credit: Gene Simmons)…its great to be silly and obnoxious every once in awhile to let her know you are still that Mustang she is continually trying to break.
Rule #4 Be the guy “on his way to greatness” versus a guy who’s “already great”…again if you look at the third part of a woman’s maternal tendencies its to help you SUCCEED. Remember, women have far more networks and resources such as yourself. They are busy and bored (credit: FJ Shark), and if they know you have passions, dreams and aspirations and you ASK (rule #1), then they’d be more than happy to be your stepping stone to that greatness. Women are beings of compassion and love, and well most people anyways have the heart for the underdog.
Rule #5 You WANT Sex, and expect GREAT sex from her. Women are great followers. Make it simple and tell her to come over and give you that amazing head from last week. Again, fulfilling your fantasies is something she enjoys doing, so allow her to.
So, there goes guys. I hope that even though this Mindmap could possibly be a puzzling mind fuck to you, I’m sure your mind is now flooding with past successes and failures more than I can even count. And hopefully this article answers the validity of the 20/80 rule in business, where you do minimal effort and reap maximum results.
For to obtain the continuation of this series, Relationship Mindmap #2, all you have to do is email me, or punch in your email on the next post, which is an email list collector for fans of the Mind Map series I’m currently writing. Or if you can’t wait, just email me at synergy@troydizon.com So i can add you to the invite list.
All the best and may your relationships be women a success!
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