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27
June
2008

Time is up!

Congratulations to the early birds who won the free consultations!

Troy

24
June
2008

Back with Full Force Podcast

The podcast tackles

1) The CRITICAL two things that solidify an interaction (and carries it past just the opening phase)

2) The importance of being in the real world

3) personality

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31
May
2008

CRAZY LAYS AT Brahmins PRIVATE INSTRUCTION, Austin TX

Here’s the play-by-play

Approached a HB10 (on a two set) around 11:30 post warm up

Ran some solid stuff, seeded the bounce. Bounced from bar to club 12 midnight

ONS rules, Extracted HB10 from club to hotel room. Brahmin did a sly fuckin room key swap

Fucked HB10 at Brahmins hotel room (schwing!)

Bounced to Location 2

Got into a FUCKIN ORGY

f–ked HB10 again and HB7.5

Some dudes brought out some coke. Troy DBounced

PHOTOS — too many incriminating ones. I’ve decided not to post them here but I do have an access account to some trusted users.

“Troy was smelling like pussy when he got out of the cab” — Brahmin tha fuckin Indian Sparrow

30
May
2008

Some Serious Thoughts in my Head, Part Deux

I’ve had a breakthrough thought recently.

As I head for my long vacation, I’ve spent the last few hours looking into the huge gains I’ve amassed through my businesses; one in particular, is my coaching job in Charisma Arts.

I love trends. I analyze them well, and I always reach very good conclusions and make the right decisions for my coaching job. I was a bit hesitant to share this information online, but heck this is for everybody to know.

This is not a marketing pitch. But with thirty thousand viewers at this point, I’d rather put on paper because this is EXACTLY what I tell every guy that gets in touch with me. This is ONE HUNDRED PERCENT FACT, straight from my business analysis and planning table to you.

I’ve had dozens of guys FLY from around the country, and FLY ME to see me work with them. Just this month alone I completed a total of TEN PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS, which sets a statement to the insatiable demand for such a program.

One thing that struck me was the ABSOLUTE SUCCESS RATE OF THE COACHING over a short, medium, and long term learning curve, as well as the CUSTOMIZATION of the sessions to fit the individual.

It also hit me that there were certain niches of the market, that I’ve consistently seen signing up.

TOP GUN goes to -

- Guys who are just starting up and are in need of a rock solid foundation. Guys who don’t want to go through the painful process of reading through e-books, audio books and seminars only to get more confused. They just want a simplistic system to follow that is clear, concise, and effective to start with. And since I do teach everything, it’s a good reason to sign up.

NUMBER TWO GOES TO

- Charisma Arts Alumni. Our beloved graduates who are either somewhat good or are getting consistently good with women. Guys who have achieved a certain success rate with women, but need a system for consistency, or like said previously, a sharper game plan. I also love this niche because I can customize things and spot things that these guys probably didn’t see in the past. Always a pleasure working with Alumni. I suggest this if you’ve hit a plateau in your learning curve and want more out of your practice. If you have game, then expect to increase your averages drastically. I don’t teach things labeled “advanced.” I customize heavily.

NUMBER THREE GOES TO

My Asian Brothers out there who are on their quest to “improve the race” (lol, its an old family term). Look, they just don’t know. When I entered Charisma Arts I was the shortest guy out of all of them (at 5’7”). I had to adapt a lot of things into the system when I did realize that a huge percent of our clientele were young to mid-age Asian males who had the usual symptoms of weak Asian game: INVISIBLE and EXPRESSIONLESS. It’s easy to say things if you’ve got a six-foot-four commanding presence, but if you’re 5’2” and you’ve got the common issues most Asian students initially have in the field. No dice for you. I love working with guys in this category because I can totally relate to their issues and vice versa? No question you will get better.

Private Coaching — Why Private Coaching?

You will hear a resounding conclusion on whether or not it’s recommended.

It depends.

Most of my alumni mention that it depends. They’ll tell you that I don’t play around.

If it’s been 6 months to a year and a half and you still have no idea what the fuck you’re doing, you should be pissed off. Heck, I would be banging my head over this. Look, stop kidding yourself. You know for a fact that changes have to be made. Do you know what they are, or do you think you know what they are? Give me a weekend and a two-month learning curve program for you and I guarantee results.

My coaching may have been part of the success vehicle for these results, but more importantly, it was also the incredible drive to succeed that brought my students to me.

It’s the immense thirst for success. This is NOT a novelty coaching session.

About 98% of my business is based on guys who are totally driven and are willing to make sacrifices doing so. Not to take away from other clients, but sadly our industry has become so unregulated that we have clients who are merely treating this as a novelty.

The costs and work associated with private coaching changes that.

Think about the costs of private coaching

$1500 a day + Airfare for myself + boarding and lodging for myself.

That’s close to a $3,000-$4,000.00 weekend if you ask me.

Honestly? I think we should get paid more. I believe that might happen sometime soon.

Think about it. When you got that much laying down the line, I can tell that you’re not just mister-geek-behind-the-computer “trying out” shit. When you sign up for this, you know its game time and there’s no turning back. Now I know I can work with you and success is not an IF but a WHEN question.

Is this bigger than pick up? YES

Sometimes you’ll hear me speak some Zen stuff. Sometimes I drop golden quotes on habits and training. But when it comes to the meat of the session, this stuff is so simple that there should be ZERO HOMEWORK FOR SKILL SETS once you learn this. Meaning, you can use these tools to charismatically attract everything around you – friends, business, family, and financial wealth. There should be no reason on why you should stay away from discussing these at forums when you should be out there practicing on everybody!

Moving on, let’s look at this word that kept striking me for the past year or so. Credibility

Is credibility important when it comes to social interactions? Can it be more important than the mere tools to use? YES

I will give you the tools, customize your lifestyle and how you come across to create incredible credibility and rarely get denied from there on. I was once asked by a very successful client lately on the subject of how people always test you. Is it a vibe test? Is it a credibility test? My Answer: It’s an EVERYTHING TEST. But you don’t have to reactively deal with that. Private coaching helps you passively deal with tests given by your peers, business associates, and the women you meet because I work on the person, not just the idea of teaching social tools.

I hate outlines, but I just thought of sharing one that I made a few weeks ago.

  • How to meet women everywhere. You will understand the simple dynamics on how to set up an amazing weekly dating cycle by meeting women the right way. We will teach you how to approach fluidly and create a favorable first impression that lasts.

  • WHAT to say to a woman, WHY you say it, and HOW you say it.

  • What key mindsets to have and what mindsets to avoid.

  • What is vibe about and how it can convey a hundred positive things about you in a snap. (re: Credibility)

  • How to transition easily into meaningful conversations with women

  • How to convey a vibe that puts you out of the friend’s zone for good.

  • How to work the night club scene and similar social scenarios such as parties and events to your advantage.

  • What rapport is, WHEN to use it and WHEN NOT to use it.

  • You will learn how to have tight follow-up game. We teach you WHEN to reach her and what tools to use when dialing up multiple scores of women. Increase your averages and eliminate flakes with this portion of the boot camp.

  • How to meet women in broad daylight – in the gym, the supermarket, bookstores, the daily commute, and at school. We also teach you how to stop women walking around and get their numbers or insta-date them.

  • “It’s not you, it’s not her, it’s the logistics” — How to set a fool-proof logistics game plan and get the girl into bed, whether it’s hers or yours.

  • How to naturally have a fun and playful chat with women to put them at ease.

Bottom-line is, I love my job. I love the changes that go on and the success that the people around me are getting. I extend my invitation to those who would like to see what it’s all about.

I am looking forward to working with you all when I get back from my vacation.

Troy

2nd HALF OF JULY18-20 Weekend is in CANCUN MEXICO!, and the 25-27 Weekend is STILL OPEN FOR STUDENTS. First Half is FULL. Call for weekday bookings or Thursday night game camps in San Antonio, Tx.

AUGUST IS FULLY OPEN FOR STUDENTS.

Book any of these dates and Immediately sign up for the program HERE

OR:

Reach out to me: Troy@charismaarts.com to set up a free consultation over email or the phone.

23
May
2008

Daytime Reports from the Field — The Hairstylist

Proactiveness, and the willingness to share yourself. These are keys to the initial escalation.

I think that the world’s Xbox 360’s, the internet, and the huge Dolce shades create the appearance of “minding your own business.” All you have to do to break that is to SPEAK UP.

So, today was interesting. 2 weeks from the vacay and 3 more private coaching sessions to clear out — one in Toronto, one with Scottc, and one with Brahmin. For those who are thinking of doing private coaching I will send you prep work that will get you ready.

Disclaimer - Do Not copy the words or take them for what they are literally. These are my thoughts irrelevant of whether I’m talking to an attractive female or not. Even if i were talking to you guys I’d share the same insights. Catch the dynamic.

I head out to the salon as the sides of my hair was forming like the bushes on my front lawn. Luckily, I had a real hot (and hip) hairstylist.

***Not her, but pretty damn close***

Beautiful South American chick. Was she Brazilian? She had blue highlights on her hair and some panda earrings. Complete look i would say is punk. Just as with some punk girls, she was very pretty.

Just as any hired gun, they’re a) bored out of their brains and b) are going to initiate the conversation. All i have to is start dropping my cents.

First was the consultation. I show her a few pictures off of my I-phone I wanted her to see, plus a few photos of myself traveling. I told her how my stylist in Frisco made this really cool cut, etc etc. She tells me how i have thick hair and how that is the best for styling, and how she loves the Japanese and Asian culture.

Nice, a perfect match! - I tell myself.

So, I mentioned to her what I did (motivational speaker, sick of the MO), and she mentioned that she can see that. She likes the tone of my voice and all.

Enough of this stuff, lets get personal here

I remember starting talking about marriage. I remember the leeway was about my age and we started guessing each other’s ages and I ended up asking if she was married or single.

Then she said she never wants to get into marriage. Long explanation.

I tell her the story of the Ecuadorian chick on Stripes’ boot camp, and the buffoon who ended up marrying her for fear of losing her. “You know where that’s gonna be headed.” She says.

I told her i would never want to end up that way. She agrees.

I told her how I need a confident girl, etc etc etc

Well, she finally opened up. She had just broken off with her boyfriend. Like, lunch break time. They’ve been living together for 6 months now. (No wonder she doesn’t want to get married :mrgreen: )

She said her bf was everything she wanted in a man, they’re so alike, blah blah blah

I tell her, well, you women don’t work that way though

She said really?!?

I DQ by saying, you want to know what I think?

She says “yes!” enthusiastically

I tell her about the differences of how men and women think. On at how most men think A+B+C, and how women are more on how they feel at a certain moment. Its all about emotions. Right there, she was hooked. She enthusiastically said “Exactly!!!!!”

So, i tell her…”You’re telling me you’re so alike, blah blah blah, but even you wanted to cool of with him…now tell me, how are you feeling about your relationship? If how you felt was a sound. What sound does the emotion feel to you? “eh!”, or “ugghh” or “hhhuuuhhhghhh!”

Without hesitation she tells me in a groaning sound.

Its “uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhgghhh!”

Troy - “you’re sick of each other!”

Hairstylist “exactly!”

From there, I related on my old long term relationship. I went on this story on how despite we were perfect for each other and I even considered marrying her (a feat, no doubt), the distance between us made us sick of getting on the phone for maintaining the relationship for the sake of it. So thats exactly how i felt.

She totally related.

She tells me how its amazing we connect, and that she is a very hard book to read. She tells me she hardly tells her stuff to anybody and is glad that she feels comfortable to tell me.

I told her that he can’t find many substitutes for her, but she surely can find men who are better than him. Then I told her she was very pretty and I can imagine her in short sexy pink shorts and a white top.

She sees the sincerity in my eyes. Through the mirror there was this “look” that said everything. I abruptly end this mood, as I set up my barrier.

I leave her wanting more. I cut the convo there, and head to the front of the salon to pay. Interestingly follows me to the front and she stays there.

I re-start the convo and plant my hand on her shoulder, saying “good luck with Japan, I really think you’ll do great over there”

Just like what Wayne says, I talk louder outside. It will make others attempt to make a one-on-one convo with you. It appears to others as if we really know each other. When one of the cute stylists finds a weak spot in the convo, she buts in.

“What are you guys talking about?”

So we ended up chatting about Japan, the Harajuku Style, and the other stylist even buts in with “aren’t the books there read backwards?” “Exactly! I’m surprised you figured that out! Are you an anime lover?” I mentioned. The great convos went on. Good vibe was there all throughout.

With the social proof established, this interaction was smooth sailing. I was a LEGIT GUY. The guy who wasn’t mister pick up dude with no follow up. Not a chump nor a chode. At this point people were gravitating over me. My sister even noticed the hot blonde beside her come up close to overhear the ruckus.

I do some kino by massaging her telling her “you get ready now, make sure you’ll make him want to f–k you when he sees you. Worse comes to worse you call me.”

whooooof! number appears out of nowhere. I foreshadowed a couple of things, but left it there. I already turned two dates down as I am to fly to Toronto tomorrow.

I know this isn’t like how i work at boot camp. The airplane ride with Stone, and the spectacle last weekend in Austin with everyone and their boyfriend’s jaws dropped still tops the list of amazing pick ups. But I just thought of sharing this out, because it seems like a very normal close that can be done when you get your hair disheveled. Seriously there are a lot of cute and hot hairstylists out there. And plus once she falls into my follow up game, its game over.

As I end this 3 week run, I realize my interactions are becoming very solid, and that a huge part of the verbal and non verbal game in my part has been solid. For the past months I’ve done nothing but step aside and develop my character to again, as i mentioned in Easievibe’s journal, create a legit first impression that lasts throughout. I believe I have achieved that.

7
March
2008

Troy’s Day Game Snippets — Part One

A potentiated insta-date. Day game can be real fun. Thanks to you guys who are continuously asking for content over here i’ve decided to write one tonight. This will be part of a series so just hang tight and enjoy.

On Opening:

A – Stands for attention. In certain parts of the world I’ve done day game, there are some actual chill places where people really have nothing on the docket and are just relaxing. But for some parts of North America, most people are on the go. People have programs running in their head – errands, bills, relationships, paid vacations, and what not. I’m pretty guilty of this as well. Even when I’m chillin’ I’m still on the go. Thus, it will be very hard to get my attention. Actually, there was only one bum who ever really caught me in San Francisco. And he did so cleverly.

I remember I was in the Marina in San Fran enjoying my day with a friend. We ran through a bunch of bums asking for money in pretty lame ways. This was until we got near the Pier. This guy, out of nowhere said “Hey, you! That’s illegal!”

The guy looked dead serious… And paused…didn’t say a thing

I looked like “what? What?” – he definitely got my attention by this time. Something no previous bum ever did.

He then goes – “Do you know…..that it’s illegal….”

I’m like “????”

“Do you know it’s illegal to be looking good in San Francisco?” Me and my friend start cracking up, candid camera style.

BOOM. He got me. It was clever enough that he deserved that dollar.

Point is, you have to get their attention, or your open can be defeated by that running program in their head. So, my suggestion is approach with a “hey” or “hi”…hold eye contact up until they look at you. Pause. Once you’ve gained their full attention, you can now deliver your conversation starter. It is important to break the program. Try having a buddy of yours role play by concentrating on a book, and you opening abruptly. 9 times out of 10 they can’t even hear what you’re saying and you will have to repeat yourself. It’s best to avoid that situation using the aforementioned opening delivery. Now, this is applicable to women who aren’t looking your way, i.e. they’re browsing the shelves or doing their groceries. The program is even stronger on walking sets, but that’s another story.

One pitfall I’ve seen guys do is keeping the conversation topic-based, usually because of focusing their conversation on the item that they used to open with. I call this the distractor. If I’m opening using a flopsy, focus, or a spontaneous opener, the presence of the distractor (i.e. the book, the spaghetti box) can impede my escalation. So what I do is I grab the distractor, by saying “that’s an interesting book, lemme see that…what’s it about…” then I close it, lower my hand carrying it, and ramp up to a personal conversation. If you can relate to this, you know what I’m talking about. Another alternative is introducing a distractor of your own (I always carry a book I’m an authority on when I’m in a bookstore). Even though the book can potentially create a topic based convo, it is something that matters to YOU and is a good leeway to escalating personally.

Alright boys, hope that helped. The next article will be about personal escalation. Anyhoo I am leaving the country next week and will be coming home to lovely Philippines. If you’re reading this and will meet me there. You know who you are. Every day will pretty much look like this:

=)

Hasta, and sign up on the Austin boot camp when i get back! You won’t regret it.

Troy

9
February
2008

Some Serious Thoughts in My Head…

If you’re sitting at home thinking “I’m kinda lonely, I think I want a girlfriend to enhance my life…” Then hey, there’s no harm in thinking that. We’re all here for different reasons. BUT, if that’s what you want and you go out thinking “I just want to improve my social skills…” Then, there will be a huge incongruence once you get to the point of escalation. You have to look deep down and be clear about your intentions as you’re learning this.

I’ve had different eras or sagas in my dating life. There was a period when I was a “notorious player,” when resentment from a past hurt motivated me to date as many hot girls I could. And I was very successful. Did I have an e-book tell me what to say? Nope. I knew what I wanted so I acted as that. I was cocky, somewhat manipulative, and challenging. There were girls who loved that, and there were who didn’t. Did I live a life of drama? Yes, and add a few death threats too. Either way, it was a period in my life I will never regret, because I learned A LOT of lessons there that I consider priceless. I had around 6 or 7 girlfriends at one time, and sex was as easy as breathing.

Then, I also had a time when I realized all that notoriousness wasn’t all that good and wanted one girlfriend. I just wanted someone intelligent, socially savvy, and physically attractive to be my girlfriend. Because of that, I calibrated my approach to dating. So, for 2 ½ years, I had one girlfriend, and she was all that I wanted. I loved her, and my family loved her. My social life was awesome with her, and both our professional lives were on a high because of being mutual motivators and “being in love.” My life was blissful, and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Then I went single again, and realized I had various business goals and lived in a new city. So, I wasn’t necessarily looking for a girlfriend, nor did I have the same motivation to become a notorious player (plus I wasn’t ready for the drama), so I had mixed goals. I started going to school, and started to have friends. So, my mindset was, get a new set of friends, and have fun and socialize. I didn’t have a game plan or the logistics to close, but my goals were accomplished. By the first month, I had A’s on my grades, and I had a group of good friends to rely on.

Later on, this pick up artist buzz started, and I realized how fun it was and how I started feeling that whole “I think I want a girlfriend” attitude, so with my friends I started doing this stuff. I ended up dating a few girls, rolled up some one night stands, and what not. Once the buzz around it started, I said to myself, “I want to be an expert at this,” So, I set out on that task, studied and practiced 10,000 + times, and that eventually lead me to be a coach for Charisma Arts. I remember well that my friends here in San Antonio felt like I was drafted into the NBA or something. They hoisted me up on their shoulders.

The common thing in all those periods, was that I was able to accomplish ALL my goals. Why? Because I had a CLEAR MINDSET on WHY I was doing what I was doing.  If I were to re-write the ABC’s of dating, A would stand for ATTITUDE.

Now, teaching for a few years now, I’ve realized a huge trend from guys coming into this. Some guys come in this with goals that severely contradict each other.

Look at these 4 things:

“I want to improve my social skills”

“I want a long-term girlfriend”

“I want one night stands”

“I want to date lots of girls”

Some might say that you can accomplish all 4 if you go out and practice. BUT IN REALITY, it will be a long, tough road, laden with very, very sporadic results. Now, unless you’re okay with that, go with the “accomplish all” mentality. But if you’re going for consistency, you can’t just go that way.

I have past students such as German Falcon, Stone, Eric L who are notoriously dating and seeing a whole pipeline of girls. We’re talking 5 girls simultaneously. Now, is that a coincidence? Do you think they just went out thinking “I want to improve my social skills” and this just happened? Do you think they even really think, “long term girlfriend?” NO. They actually up the ante on their skills, have actual day 2 or 3 transitions, and devote TIME into making this goal a reality. And no, they don’t want a girlfriend. To most guys, they don’t even have the time to date even if they approach every weekend. So, I tell you, set time for this. If you save up all your social time for the weekends, then forget it, because you’ll need to set time aside to actually convert these numbers and actually do a second meet up preferably when its NOT Saturday night.

This is what they wanted. And they do practice notoriously. I remember Stone said something like “I’m not going for less than an 8 in looks.” Hey, I’m not going to judge that. It’s no surprise that he’s dating escorts and bartenders from trendy night clubs. He goes 4-6 nights a week. Not because he wants to “practice social skills,” but he wants to notoriously date very attractive women. I know for a fact that German Falcon has tons of girls he regularly sees; apart from the new ones he meets everyday.

I have clients like Ch from Austin, or The Lion from Dallas who simply just want to get laid, and 2, 3 weeks down the line they do. Did they have to learn everything? NO. They just learned enough stuff to get them laid. If their goals change down the line, then they have to adapt their mindset and calibrate their goals to the new mission.

On being sociable — Learning to be sociable and actually accelerating your dating life, is almost like comparing apples and oranges.

I know LOTS and LOTS of people who are social hubs and have thousands of connections, while having zero or a negative romantic life.

Why? It’s because although being a social connector will indirectly move you forward into meeting more people and enhancing your life, it also requires a lot of WORK. Imagine, all the text messages, calls, meet ups, the name-remembering and the parties. Unless this is what you really want, don’t expect a lot of sex in return.

This is why I am not really a social hub. Sure, I have friends and social circles, and I can act as one in any social situation, but there is no way I can be a connector 24/7. My way of handling that is to have friends who are social hubs. If I have a party or event, I can trust my social hub friends to bring close to 7-10 girls each. In Charisma Arts I know Chad is pretty good at this. He even mentioned there were people who did only this (connecting and socializing) for 24 hours straight.

This is what you focus your game plan on, on what your true intentions are.

Here’s a real-world example –

You – Being sociable without any preparedness – blind and Incongruent

You go to a club, where there are lots of hot girls. Is there a reason they look hot? Let me see, to socialize? NO. They came out in hopes of looking for a romantic mate. Get that in your head. If you have another reason why they go to clubs, hit me up on email. I could be wrong. Anyhow, you approach the girl, you have the skills learned from practice, theory, as well as a previous boot camp, and things go really well…

You connect…

BUT….

There’s incongruence in attitudes:

You – being sociable

Her – finding a mate

Look at this incongruence right here.

First off, in your mind you don’t want to get romantic with her, heck even if she were tossed to you in a silver platter there’s no way in hell you want to sex her. Your mind is not ready nor do you have the intestinal fortitude to push through. You don’t have any day 2 mechanisms and most probably even if you did get her to “have coffee and a good conversation” you wouldn’t know how that transitions to sex.

Re-read that last paragraph. If you’re not getting anywhere in your dating life and you’ve been approaching for awhile this is probably why. Now do you understand that everything starts with attitude?

So, you take her number…

Your idea of a call back is something like “Hey Johana, it’s me Troy, what are you up to?”

You call, she takes it, and you have this urge to “build attraction…re-connect, re-build that connection….” WRONG

It’s going nowhere, and later on she flakes. She’s never heard from again.

When you are going out blind with the wrong reasons, you don’t escalate. You don’t even have the mindset or the logistical mechanisms to set things in motion

When I’m interacting, I’m sure that I do have a game plan. I do know places which we can have a relatively low-pressure meet up to be ourselves. I also know how to transition from there to back in my bed room. Plus, I am ready for any sexual advance that might happen ANYTIME in the interaction. I’m ready to make out, do some foreplay, heck, and even have sex in my car if I have to. Even before I get her number I’m already telling her about what will happen. I’m bringing her into my life, my reality. So when I take that number it’s as easy as “remember what I said about playing some songs together? I’d love to do that with you. What days are you available in the week?” She KNOWS that there is DIRECTION as to where this is going. In her head, she’s thinking “We meet, play some tunes together, I get to express myself, I get to know him more, we share some intimate moments, and we have sex by date 3.” That’s what’s on her mind even before she gives you the number. Can you imagine what would happen if you had an empty game plan?

Let me give you an easy way I can figure out if a guy knows what he wants

I call it “The Congruency Question”

I simply ask my clients “What would you do, if you were out in a club, and a hot chick comes up to you, saying…I want to fuck…”

What would you do?

If your answer is somewhere along the lines of “uhhhhhhhhhhhh….errrrrrr…..” Then you must re-evaluate your goals.

In conclusion, you have to re-evaluate your intent into this, because once you do, you will have a clear cut desire and a well-thawed out game plan consisting of goals and objectives to get you closer to that ideal lifestyle.

Don’t go out blind. Go out prepared

Troy

1
February
2008

Germany???

Sounds pretty impromptu, but I have a few guys who requested me to teach Charisma Arts over there either this month or next month. I’m not too big on doing Euro trips until around June, but heck I’ve heard a lot of good things about Germany and I think I’ll make an exception this time.

If THIS is what I can expect over there, you KNOW its gonna be mayhem all over again.

email me for boot camp details.

All the best

Troy

30
January
2008

The Third Pillar of Charisma Arts

Escalation, Escalation, Escalation
Escalation is merely having the initiative to lead and change the dynamic of the relationship. Escalation is the courage to risk the current state of the relationship to accomplish a deeper connection. Escalation is the enemy of orbiters and guys who love the friends zone. Escalation is a MUST in every relationship.
27
January
2008

My Next Post Will be About

MY all-time must haves to be successful with women

a) Attitude, Beliefs, and Authority over thyself.

b) Skills, Capabilities, and Learned Behaviors

c) Social Awareness and Calibrating in context to the Environment

Post should be up in 48 hours.

Have a great weekend guys, I know i did =)

Troy