The Best customized content, content

delivery, actual tangible results and an

over all life changing experience.

While you’re pondering if you should take the plunge or not, start

reading up on Bao’s Private Coaching weekend. Oh yeah, don’t

forget to take your Ritalin.

Back to Student Success Weekend –

Julian, the German Falcon, my best Euro student, is now officially a Charisma Arts Instructor. Click here for Julian’s published lay report from an actual boot camp.

Tim is still being the Asian Gigolo that he is. He’s currently working on unleashing his toolbox of fun soon. Click here for Tim’s recent published lay report.

Raja, from Dallas is going to a swinger’s party tonight. We want photos!

Stripes from Austin, has a chick coming all the way from Cincinnati this weekend. All it took was a sexually charged phone call to make it happen. Then there’s all this talk of tying each other up….hmmmm….

Bamawa just sent me some smoking hot photos of a weekend he spent with his new ex-dancer girlfriend. He says he still needs work with his number one sticking point, his GUT! Lol……You the man!

Peter2 just sent me some pics on his dates with some bonafide nines.

Any questions, hit me up at troy@charismaarts.com

Stay updated!

Troy

Anyways, I’m feeling really great right now and in such a good mood. I’m going to give TWO FREE consultations over skype to ANYONE (meaning even non-alumni and new guys coming into the game). This offer is limited and will be available over the next 4 hours. I’m headed to the Charisma Seminar in Chicago at around 2 PM CST.

So, what needs to be done?

First, email me at troy@charismaarts.com

Second, let me know about you (and your Skype ID) Third, let me know about the unique situations you’ve encountered. Successes and stumbling blocks.

Fourth, you get to hear back from me.

Troy

During that weekend, my homeboy was even lucky enough to see me go toe-to-toe with a *famed* guru of the community in field (he was a dick so he deserved it). He saw how calm and natural my approach was and the quality of my interactions over this guy who blasted out every trick in his bag to get the girl. Not only did I win over my girl, but came to his girl and took her too. Right then and there, I knew that the experience would change him forever

3 months later, I reconnect with him and find out what he’s been up to.

“Troy, here’s what I got to say. Thank you. Finally I have a “normal” social life going on, not this PUA shit, and you were right. I got my shit together, and within 2 months I did get a girlfriend.”

“I mean finally, we’re those guys in the clubs having fun with the girls “naturally. In the past, the recurring question that kept coming back to me was: How come these people are having more fun in the clubs than I am without having my knowledge of picking up women? Now I understand. We’re really not PUA’s anymore. We’re just guys who have fun going out. We go out with regular groups of girls all the time, and doing this makes meeting new women WAY easier. It’s really different having a steady group of chicks AND meeting new chicks.”

“What’s even crazy is that *another famous pick up artist* and his instructor were on the dance floor trying to infiltrate our group. They did not look fun and looked like they were all business – plotting their next strategy. It was ridiculous. Again, thanks Troy. I can officially say we’re HUMAN NOW.”

Troy D “How is *His Close friend and Wingman (who I trained as well)*?”

“He’s got a girlfriend now, so he doesn’t go out as much. He does have a sideline gf though! He still wears that fashionable hat you told him to wear and still goes with the nickname you gave him. I’m proud of that fella. Despite his bad luck on his business, when we took him out he had some solid game. He took the girl with him! (Same day we out gamed *famous pick up artist*) Dude, even with all the negative events in his life he was still able to do that. Thing is, he’s very authentic so, his problems will get solved. Wanna hear something crazy? Recently A GIRL PROPOSED TO HIM! I kid you not, ask him about it!”

Troy D “Wow, such a development in 2-3 months”

“To be honest though, after I saw you last February, I didn’t go out till early May. I had A LOT of soul searching to do. It’s because….number one…You killed something that I believed in. When I saw you toe to toe with *famed guru*, the effect was different with me. I saw what bullshit was, and I saw what was beyond bullshit. I WAS HEARTBROKEN, because I idolized those guys for 2 long years. I believed in their system. I’m serious! Because all along I had an idea of what it was, but when I saw it in action, all my expectations about them were destroyed. I felt the same way watching you when the Celtics beat the Lakers in game 4…I was like How the heck did that happen?”

If you guys are leading perfectly normal lives then I seriously consider appreciating what you have. My friend here had a very severe case of ADD. (He actually used to put post-its on the wall as well as used a voice recorder to remember his directions). But it wasn’t his ADD that was the issue (because he worked hard to eliminate it). He had a lot of really good things going on for himself such as his enthusiasm, his clothing style, and most importantly, his genuineness – traits that any woman would go for. All he needed to know was how this worked, and experience. 2 working weekends later, detoxifying those horrible “PUA habits” + 3-6 months experience, and he has arrived.

Bro, THANK YOU. You make me believe in myself as well.

Troy

1) The CRITICAL two things that solidify an interaction (and carries it past just the opening phase)

2) The importance of being in the real world

3) personality

Troy D

**Kudos goes to Stone for actually compiling the 15 or so raunchy photos. He has such a sense of humor on the pic details.

Alright, last night was the Almighty Papa Falcon night. Such a beautiful finish to a slew of ten private coaching sessions in a month. As I’ve said before, my student for this last stint, was Brahmin.

For those who would like to understand why private coaching with me is kind of in demand, check my blog for my post, “Some Serious Thoughts in my head, Part Deux.”

Warm up is so important, especially riffing off your wingman’s success.

I had no doubt that Brahmin would pull off what he did. He was amazing in his sets. If only he knew how to dance that night, his FIRST set, which was a black dressed cutie, would’ve been game over. Needless to say though, his following warm up sets was all that was needed to confirm that I did a good job of relaying the information to him through the seminar and interactive portion of the private coaching session.

Because of that, Yours truly was set to explode. Join me in this wacky adventurous journey as I try to recapture the moment.

We ended up at the Patio area of a very good spot in Austin. Nice ratio of people who were up for a conversation. Music was peaking because of the DJ downstairs blasting that music up.

I remember winging Brahmin into one set which ended up flowing really well. I open another one and it goes really really well. Winged Brahmin again and it went well. The cute waitress who I met last boot camp was giving me the sexy looks, approached me to reconnect our last soiree. I sexily kino her and she loves it. This was done in front of all the chicks around me. In no time another cute waitress jumps in my conversation talking about using some whip on me.

Momentum building, I look at Stripes, Brahmin and P2 (Obviously forum names), and I KNOW I am in “the mode”

I look behind me, and I see a tall-ass, 6′2″, Blonde chick with just this really hot body and a model face dancing off with her friend, a sexily red-dressed brunette. Much Shorter, a 7.5. The photos are at the Alumni forums but if you want to ask how hot this chick is, ask Stripes because he used to work with her before.

I get in the mode. Give my wingman that look of “watch this” and dynamo into the set. Big open with kino. “OMG FINALLY! People who can party!” Both hotties give me HUGE POP (meaning laughter, excitement, i coined the term from professional wrestling), and after that I start my mini-leading, by twisting and turning them and getting in between them. The blonde was so down to dance and all. I teach the one in the red a dual dance move I coined “the yin yang” and she loved it. They are all under my dominance. Some good looking older dude comes in for a sec. I tell blonde “hey is that your dad telling you its late?” She breeds distaste for him. He’s gone. Girl in red goes “Hey can we do a triple yin yang?” She goes into explaining the variation and all three of us (in front of every douschebag around jaws dropped) get into the triple yin yang, by which i give my SOI on the red dressed one “OMG You totally made an awesome variation to my dance move! I love ya!” Blonde butts in “I love you!!!!!” This took around 7 minutes.

I was doing this when I did my usual, “you know what, we’re not for this crowd. we need something better.” Meaning I foreshadow going to this Super club (HELLO ALUMNI WEEKEND!) Tomorrow.

My thoughts were messing with me. Could I really pull this super hot chick this early? A TWO Set at that?!? What if they have friends? Boyfriends? Whatnot?

If anyone of you know me, when in doubt. WOMEN WANT MEN. The escalation window was NOW. Not tomorrow. NOW.

She tells me “Yeah??? Where is that??!?” I’m like “Across the street! Lets go!!!”

As I say this some good looking dude who knows them bring in 5 women. DAMN. I had to make a choice. If I talked to that group that would plant me in more, which would ruin the pull. OR I could just ignore them and start walking. So, walk was what I did. Unbelievably the two girls ignore the dude (who was probably lame with no vibe) and the 5 women and bounced with us! YES!

At this point, Stripes is talking to the chick, and we’re just cracking jokes. We end up at the SUPER CLUB. As we are walking in I could hear the thunderous beats bringing the tempo up notch after notch. it was 11:30-11:45. This means that in time calibration it is important to be “set” into a certain crowd. I had my two girls and my wingmen. We were set.

For obvious reasons, this was going to be a one man show, with neither wingman having the technical capacity to handle such a situation. It was tough, but I knew the ONLY rule of One night stands — Never let the girl out of your sight. Not pushy, but just keep her around. Because of the numerous leading I had done, she was in it.

Thanks to Stripes he mentioned that she had broken up with her boyfriend of 4 years. She just turned 21. So, using that I said something like. Wow, you’re acting really over the top eh? Did you just turn single? She gives me a “YESSS!! f–k relationships!!!” Apparently its this dude from high school of 4 years. Time to move on she says. Hey, who am i to complain. I’m with this super hottie chick and she’s mine in front of everybody.

Then something Godsent happens

Through natural isolation, the girl in the red DISSAPPEARS! Not for 5 or 10 minutes, but the ENTIRE NIGHT! Another window given to me. But before that we would enjoy the night dancing and enjoying the place together. She got up on the pedestal to dance in front of a crowd of onlookers, as I planted myself as her “guy” by doing sexual kino here and there and not moving too far. because of this, women came up to me and started to hit on me. Because I was also confidently dancing on my own knowing the tempo of the DJ’s music, even groups of people invited me to their tables to drink and dance with them. Through that I met a lot of key people that are now inviting me to parties all over town. Watching from the pedestal, I can imagine that as she’s watching this, she sees my social value and my credibility as the guy who pulled her from spot A. It was golden. All i had to do was go back to her, and girls would come hit on me. When I’d come hit on the girls who hit on me, she’d come back to me. As TieGuy would say, “Its a Beautiful Thing.”

Key thing to understand here - at this point you should just let it ride. Do not manipulate the situation or analyze how to control it. Just let it ride.

After last call, and about six shots. We were ready to bounce. I gotta say, I was somewhat wasted at this point. My hotel was 3 blocks away and I did not have the key! (Brahmin did) So, despite the fun walk back, Brahmin, Stripes, and P2 were in the back ensuring I’d get the key.

Some dude was calling her from red dress’ phone. He had me take down the address and get there through cab but since i knew i was almost home. I just said “yeah, yeah I got it” and ignored it. Little did I know that later on that would serve as another crazy thing.

Brahmin and co. finally caught up to us as we were taking silly photos on some garden. Thanks to Brahmins slick high five with the room key in his palm I could move on. After that we did track and field role playing and both sprinted (which thanks to that, cleared out 75% of the way back). Finally we ended up at the hotel room. We both peed like nuts. Then after that we did some more crazy s–t, then in privacy, the super hot blonde laid on my bed, and slowly we made out, and there was a little LMR, but nothing hard that can’t be over come by persistence and barriers. Boom Lay one done. Dominance + fun + sexual presence + being in the moment = LAY.

After clearing that out, her phone rings, and its red dress, and again that dude was on the phone. Demanding a cab ride to that certain address. being that I already nailed her, I had no problems getting her a cab. I was spent, so I took her down (I think she was mooning on the glass elevators. We were wasted as hell) Take her to the cab, and she doesn’t want to leave me! I was like “what?” and she said “No, you’re coming with me!”

We ended up driving to God knows where, and ended up in this dude’s super pimp pad. Like seriously, if i ever had a pimp pad, this would be it. It had EVERYTHING.

So, we ended up in one of the rooms, immediately red dress and Blonde start making out heavily, which ends up in a full on eating fiasco. In the beginning there were too many guys around watching and I had to back out to let the host let em out. I sticked with em because I was obviously curious to see how this was gonna unfold. Then it got real hot where me and the host started joining in. Doors were locked, blinds were shut. We were so into it, that I took 15 crazy photos that they didn’t even care about. Long story short we double f–ked red dress and blondie.

Then the coke guy came out and lines were started. That was my exit out. I fuckin bailed, walked down the street, and got the heck outta dodge. I get to the hotel through a cab, and enjoy debrief with the guys. According to Brahmin, i was smelling like pussy all over.

Again, a beautiful end to a long private coaching run. Thanks to my previous PI students. You guys definitely added to the momentum coming into this. That was probably one of the hottest chicks I’ve nailed, and one of the wildest rollercoaster rides so far. Now its time for a three week vacation with Timmy into Asia. I doubt things will slow down anytime soon.

Cheers

Troy

Approached a HB10 (on a two set) around 11:30 post warm up

Ran some solid stuff, seeded the bounce. Bounced from bar to club 12 midnight

ONS rules, Extracted HB10 from club to hotel room. Brahmin did a sly fuckin room key swap

Fucked HB10 at Brahmins hotel room (schwing!)

Bounced to Location 2

Got into a FUCKIN ORGY

f–ked HB10 again and HB7.5

Some dudes brought out some coke. Troy DBounced

PHOTOS — too many incriminating ones. I’ve decided not to post them here but I do have an access account to some trusted users.

“Troy was smelling like pussy when he got out of the cab” — Brahmin tha fuckin Indian Sparrow

As I head for my long vacation, I’ve spent the last few hours looking into the huge gains I’ve amassed through my businesses; one in particular, is my coaching job in Charisma Arts.

I love trends. I analyze them well, and I always reach very good conclusions and make the right decisions for my coaching job. I was a bit hesitant to share this information online, but heck this is for everybody to know.

This is not a marketing pitch. But with thirty thousand viewers at this point, I’d rather put on paper because this is EXACTLY what I tell every guy that gets in touch with me. This is ONE HUNDRED PERCENT FACT, straight from my business analysis and planning table to you.

I’ve had dozens of guys FLY from around the country, and FLY ME to see me work with them. Just this month alone I completed a total of TEN PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS, which sets a statement to the insatiable demand for such a program.

One thing that struck me was the ABSOLUTE SUCCESS RATE OF THE COACHING over a short, medium, and long term learning curve, as well as the CUSTOMIZATION of the sessions to fit the individual.

It also hit me that there were certain niches of the market, that I’ve consistently seen signing up.

TOP GUN goes to -

- Guys who are just starting up and are in need of a rock solid foundation. Guys who don’t want to go through the painful process of reading through e-books, audio books and seminars only to get more confused. They just want a simplistic system to follow that is clear, concise, and effective to start with. And since I do teach everything, it’s a good reason to sign up.

NUMBER TWO GOES TO

- Charisma Arts Alumni. Our beloved graduates who are either somewhat good or are getting consistently good with women. Guys who have achieved a certain success rate with women, but need a system for consistency, or like said previously, a sharper game plan. I also love this niche because I can customize things and spot things that these guys probably didn’t see in the past. Always a pleasure working with Alumni. I suggest this if you’ve hit a plateau in your learning curve and want more out of your practice. If you have game, then expect to increase your averages drastically. I don’t teach things labeled “advanced.” I customize heavily.

NUMBER THREE GOES TO

My Asian Brothers out there who are on their quest to “improve the race” (lol, its an old family term). Look, they just don’t know. When I entered Charisma Arts I was the shortest guy out of all of them (at 5’7”). I had to adapt a lot of things into the system when I did realize that a huge percent of our clientele were young to mid-age Asian males who had the usual symptoms of weak Asian game: INVISIBLE and EXPRESSIONLESS. It’s easy to say things if you’ve got a six-foot-four commanding presence, but if you’re 5’2” and you’ve got the common issues most Asian students initially have in the field. No dice for you. I love working with guys in this category because I can totally relate to their issues and vice versa? No question you will get better.

Private Coaching — Why Private Coaching?

You will hear a resounding conclusion on whether or not it’s recommended.

It depends.

Most of my alumni mention that it depends. They’ll tell you that I don’t play around.

If it’s been 6 months to a year and a half and you still have no idea what the fuck you’re doing, you should be pissed off. Heck, I would be banging my head over this. Look, stop kidding yourself. You know for a fact that changes have to be made. Do you know what they are, or do you think you know what they are? Give me a weekend and a two-month learning curve program for you and I guarantee results.

My coaching may have been part of the success vehicle for these results, but more importantly, it was also the incredible drive to succeed that brought my students to me.

It’s the immense thirst for success. This is NOT a novelty coaching session.

About 98% of my business is based on guys who are totally driven and are willing to make sacrifices doing so. Not to take away from other clients, but sadly our industry has become so unregulated that we have clients who are merely treating this as a novelty.

The costs and work associated with private coaching changes that.

Think about the costs of private coaching

$1500 a day + Airfare for myself + boarding and lodging for myself.

That’s close to a $3,000-$4,000.00 weekend if you ask me.

Honestly? I think we should get paid more. I believe that might happen sometime soon.

Think about it. When you got that much laying down the line, I can tell that you’re not just mister-geek-behind-the-computer “trying out” shit. When you sign up for this, you know its game time and there’s no turning back. Now I know I can work with you and success is not an IF but a WHEN question.

Is this bigger than pick up? YES

Sometimes you’ll hear me speak some Zen stuff. Sometimes I drop golden quotes on habits and training. But when it comes to the meat of the session, this stuff is so simple that there should be ZERO HOMEWORK FOR SKILL SETS once you learn this. Meaning, you can use these tools to charismatically attract everything around you – friends, business, family, and financial wealth. There should be no reason on why you should stay away from discussing these at forums when you should be out there practicing on everybody!

Moving on, let’s look at this word that kept striking me for the past year or so. Credibility

Is credibility important when it comes to social interactions? Can it be more important than the mere tools to use? YES

I will give you the tools, customize your lifestyle and how you come across to create incredible credibility and rarely get denied from there on. I was once asked by a very successful client lately on the subject of how people always test you. Is it a vibe test? Is it a credibility test? My Answer: It’s an EVERYTHING TEST. But you don’t have to reactively deal with that. Private coaching helps you passively deal with tests given by your peers, business associates, and the women you meet because I work on the person, not just the idea of teaching social tools.

I hate outlines, but I just thought of sharing one that I made a few weeks ago.

• How to meet women everywhere. You will understand the simple dynamics on how to set up an amazing weekly dating cycle by meeting women the right way. We will teach you how to approach fluidly and create a favorable first impression that lasts.

• WHAT to say to a woman, WHY you say it, and HOW you say it.

• What key mindsets to have and what mindsets to avoid.

• What is vibe about and how it can convey a hundred positive things about you in a snap. (re: Credibility)

• How to transition easily into meaningful conversations with women

• How to convey a vibe that puts you out of the friend’s zone for good.

• How to work the night club scene and similar social scenarios such as parties and events to your advantage.

• What rapport is, WHEN to use it and WHEN NOT to use it.

• You will learn how to have tight follow-up game. We teach you WHEN to reach her and what tools to use when dialing up multiple scores of women. Increase your averages and eliminate flakes with this portion of the boot camp.

• How to meet women in broad daylight – in the gym, the supermarket, bookstores, the daily commute, and at school. We also teach you how to stop women walking around and get their numbers or insta-date them.

• “It’s not you, it’s not her, it’s the logistics” — How to set a fool-proof logistics game plan and get the girl into bed, whether it’s hers or yours.

• How to naturally have a fun and playful chat with women to put them at ease.

Bottom-line is, I love my job. I love the changes that go on and the success that the people around me are getting. I extend my invitation to those who would like to see what it’s all about.

I am looking forward to working with you all when I get back from my vacation.

Troy

2^nd HALF OF JULY – 18-20 Weekend is in CANCUN MEXICO!, and the 25-27 Weekend is STILL OPEN FOR STUDENTS. First Half is FULL. Call for weekday bookings or Thursday night game camps in San Antonio, Tx.

AUGUST IS FULLY OPEN FOR STUDENTS.

Book any of these dates and Immediately sign up for the program HERE

OR:

Reach out to me: Troy@charismaarts.com to set up a free consultation over email or the phone.

So this is an up to date log on SGSparrow’s training here in beautiful Toronto Canada.

After our 2 hour briefing on day game it was time to hit the mall. Again, it was time for warm up. Little did we know that he was gonna approach an Italian 10 and have a really long and awesome interaction along the way (like, she didn’t want him to leave).

So, after demonstrating to him an instadate with a CEO (hehe) and leaving his ass, our homeboy was motivated.

1st approach, was this beautiful Eurochick sitting at the bench. As we were practicing skill sets, i merely asked him to do a seated approach with the proper body physiology. And he did! Actually he was nervous at first, giving me that wormy i want to shit in my pants stare. But eitherway, he did it.

Honestly he does not remember how he opened her, but I can assure you it was something low key like “hi”

With the proper entrance, he was money, up until his “pragmatic dance” was way off. He did engage well, but he didn’t shift correctly, so In Super-instructor fashion, I used my ninja skills to pull him back, while saying “lean back.” Do not try this in the field. For I can dissapppear quickly and undetected. (Read the other reviews)

As you can see here, better positioning with the girl moving in forward\

Same thing, Sparrow dropped his 2 cents, 3 cents, did some light fun stuff. She told him how she wanted to learn italian, and he said “its all about the accents…and started transforming into an Indian man…” Girl laughs and keeps mentioning “you’re funny!” At this point she gets really into expressing herself, interaction lasting a good 20 minutes. Sparrow actually tried leaving twice but she wouldn’t shut up.

Here she is enjoying such a fun time with Sparrow

“Well, I have to go get lost in this town, hope he shows up…” She tells him she’s gonna bitch on him on the phone (apparently she was waiting for a dooooschbag date) and so sparrow solidly closes this one and with tight foreshadows it was a lock. Even as he leaves she continues and tries to engage, but sorry, we have to prepare for night game. Toronto Private Coaching

Warm up #1 - picked up a CEO

Warm up #2 - picked up an Italian 10 for day game

Sparrow 2 — Worms — 0

Don’t ask about the Bird Analogy, his name is not Sparrow. Check the forums.

Troy D

One, was a very good friend in high school, who i spent a full 2 hours crackin up with on how stupid and chumpy we were in high school. Yes I was chumpy once. And the memories were fun to remember, but were tough to live out back then. It was because of that chumpiness that made me decide to change when i hit Uni. It was a major step that started the spark.

And next, was my “first love” ex of 2 years (lost the v card) who broke my heart and started my player rampage at 19 years old. Until now as we chat on facebook, we still reminisce on everything. Although we never lasted as much as we wanted we both admitted that the sex was definitely priceless (especially the ones in public places like the library) and we really had good times under our belt.

Interestingly, the past feelings of being a loser, or anger towards my ex never even came back. Not one bit. I came to realize that I actually did not regret going through those tough times, whether being lady-less in high school, or going through a resentful, painful break up, because they were what made me into who i am now. It was because of those events that I made a decision that I stuck with all throughout.

Luckily through the pain i met a mentor who taught me this really awesome thing. When we were doing self-improvement seminars we would always do this activity to rid our clients of their baggage.

I remember we had our clients remember all the people who helped them, and hurt them. The ones who believed in them, and the ones who put them down. The room became very emotional. We had music playing too.

Our activity actually made a lot of people cry. The key to ridding baggage was actually saying these two things to these people you’ve met along the way…

I FORGIVE YOU

Its hard to let go of resentments if you don’t somehow accept that they are paths to how things work out in your life. The best thing to do is to thank these people (even through a whisper), and actually get the guts to forgive them, and move on. I remember when i did this, things eased off smoothly. i didn’t carry as much baggage and I was able to make those changes into a better, more self-actualized human being. 8-10 years later, I chat with these two people and reminisce over the glory days, and I am very much excited to see them again soon.

I know this is not a pick up topic, but I’m sure many of you out there still hold grudges and hard feelings in the past. Just search deep in your heart, thank these people, forgive them, and move on.

it takes a real man to do that.

Troy D

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/05/23/random-boot-camp-update-im-18-and-i-picked-up-a-ceo/ 2008-05-23T23:38:26Z 2008-05-23T23:38:26Z Student Successes

“Dad would do backflips if he found out” — Canadian/Singaporean Sparrow

As we got back from dinner and warming up at the local mall, the Eaton Center, we noticed 3 women having some wine at the hotel bar.

PRESENCE

No blind side approaches. We stand a good 3 feet from them, have a little chat on how Miq was going to join us, and just like that we created presence.

Spontaneously my student catches eye contact and approaches smoothly.

They were checking us out beforehand, which made the approach very spontaneous and low key

“Where’s circa?” A club we were to be at tonight.

Sparrow drops his 2 cents, they do as well, 3 cents, 4 cents…….

I get introduced to the group, and its game time.

We find out they’re a bachelorette group of 25, and they booked 6 rooms at our lavish hotel. Sparrow drops his foreshadow and I-perspective, mentioning how he was shocked at the size of our suite, and how we had enough pillows to start a pillow fight (laughs from everyone.) Then I started telling them about the many bachelorettes in Austin, and my craziest experience regarding the bachelorrete “list.”

They are all engaged. They want to know what it is

Foreshadow #2 - I tell them that the bachelorette group asked for my underwear (watch for the recall later)

I asked really quick, “Who is the mastermind?”

They both point out to the third girl, which Sparrow isolates very quickly.

As I’m talking he leads her to the bell desk and grabs a trolley for their stuff. Next thing you know, she’s calling shot gun on it, and she’s running around in the trolley (hint, hint, who’s the CEO again?)

I drop more cents, but our interaction gets interrupted by two more women

Play cool, throw a sound byte here, a sound byte there, roll back to the interaction.

Foreshadow #3 on the places we’ll hit up over the weekend

Girl says “Hey, you’re free to join our party tomorrow, its a little younger crowd, but the music is amazing. What kind of music do you like?”

At this point sparrow number closes his girl, and she gives him her card.

Recall all the foreshadows on the weekend party, the underwear (When I see you, don’t grab my underwear okay? Girls flirting back: “Oh we’re taking YOUR underwear!”, and text foreshadow the pillow fight tonight at the hotel)

As we walk away and high five each other, sparrow looks at the card.

” A CEO!?!?!? HOLY FUCK! I picked up a CEO!?!?!” We celebrate at the hotel room

And this was warm up?

Troy

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/05/23/daytime-reports-from-the-field-the-hairstylist/ 2008-05-23T19:49:23Z 2008-05-23T19:49:23Z Uncategorized

Proactiveness, and the willingness to share yourself. These are keys to the initial escalation.

I think that the world’s Xbox 360’s, the internet, and the huge Dolce shades create the appearance of “minding your own business.” All you have to do to break that is to SPEAK UP.

So, today was interesting. 2 weeks from the vacay and 3 more private coaching sessions to clear out — one in Toronto, one with Scottc, and one with Brahmin. For those who are thinking of doing private coaching I will send you prep work that will get you ready.

Disclaimer - Do Not copy the words or take them for what they are literally. These are my thoughts irrelevant of whether I’m talking to an attractive female or not. Even if i were talking to you guys I’d share the same insights. Catch the dynamic.

I head out to the salon as the sides of my hair was forming like the bushes on my front lawn. Luckily, I had a real hot (and hip) hairstylist.

***Not her, but pretty damn close***

Beautiful South American chick. Was she Brazilian? She had blue highlights on her hair and some panda earrings. Complete look i would say is punk. Just as with some punk girls, she was very pretty.

Just as any hired gun, they’re a) bored out of their brains and b) are going to initiate the conversation. All i have to is start dropping my cents.

First was the consultation. I show her a few pictures off of my I-phone I wanted her to see, plus a few photos of myself traveling. I told her how my stylist in Frisco made this really cool cut, etc etc. She tells me how i have thick hair and how that is the best for styling, and how she loves the Japanese and Asian culture.

Nice, a perfect match! - I tell myself.

So, I mentioned to her what I did (motivational speaker, sick of the MO), and she mentioned that she can see that. She likes the tone of my voice and all.

Enough of this stuff, lets get personal here

I remember starting talking about marriage. I remember the leeway was about my age and we started guessing each other’s ages and I ended up asking if she was married or single.

Then she said she never wants to get into marriage. Long explanation.

I tell her the story of the Ecuadorian chick on Stripes’ boot camp, and the buffoon who ended up marrying her for fear of losing her. “You know where that’s gonna be headed.” She says.

I told her i would never want to end up that way. She agrees.

I told her how I need a confident girl, etc etc etc

Well, she finally opened up. She had just broken off with her boyfriend. Like, lunch break time. They’ve been living together for 6 months now. (No wonder she doesn’t want to get married )

She said her bf was everything she wanted in a man, they’re so alike, blah blah blah

I tell her, well, you women don’t work that way though

She said really?!?

I DQ by saying, you want to know what I think?

She says “yes!” enthusiastically

I tell her about the differences of how men and women think. On at how most men think A+B+C, and how women are more on how they feel at a certain moment. Its all about emotions. Right there, she was hooked. She enthusiastically said “Exactly!!!!!”

So, i tell her…”You’re telling me you’re so alike, blah blah blah, but even you wanted to cool of with him…now tell me, how are you feeling about your relationship? If how you felt was a sound. What sound does the emotion feel to you? “eh!”, or “ugghh” or “hhhuuuhhhghhh!”

Without hesitation she tells me in a groaning sound.

Its “uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhgghhh!”

Troy - “you’re sick of each other!”

Hairstylist “exactly!”

From there, I related on my old long term relationship. I went on this story on how despite we were perfect for each other and I even considered marrying her (a feat, no doubt), the distance between us made us sick of getting on the phone for maintaining the relationship for the sake of it. So thats exactly how i felt.

She totally related.

She tells me how its amazing we connect, and that she is a very hard book to read. She tells me she hardly tells her stuff to anybody and is glad that she feels comfortable to tell me.

I told her that he can’t find many substitutes for her, but she surely can find men who are better than him. Then I told her she was very pretty and I can imagine her in short sexy pink shorts and a white top.

She sees the sincerity in my eyes. Through the mirror there was this “look” that said everything. I abruptly end this mood, as I set up my barrier.

I leave her wanting more. I cut the convo there, and head to the front of the salon to pay. Interestingly follows me to the front and she stays there.

I re-start the convo and plant my hand on her shoulder, saying “good luck with Japan, I really think you’ll do great over there”

Just like what Wayne says, I talk louder outside. It will make others attempt to make a one-on-one convo with you. It appears to others as if we really know each other. When one of the cute stylists finds a weak spot in the convo, she buts in.

“What are you guys talking about?”

So we ended up chatting about Japan, the Harajuku Style, and the other stylist even buts in with “aren’t the books there read backwards?” “Exactly! I’m surprised you figured that out! Are you an anime lover?” I mentioned. The great convos went on. Good vibe was there all throughout.

With the social proof established, this interaction was smooth sailing. I was a LEGIT GUY. The guy who wasn’t mister pick up dude with no follow up. Not a chump nor a chode. At this point people were gravitating over me. My sister even noticed the hot blonde beside her come up close to overhear the ruckus.

I do some kino by massaging her telling her “you get ready now, make sure you’ll make him want to f–k you when he sees you. Worse comes to worse you call me.”

whooooof! number appears out of nowhere. I foreshadowed a couple of things, but left it there. I already turned two dates down as I am to fly to Toronto tomorrow.

I know this isn’t like how i work at boot camp. The airplane ride with Stone, and the spectacle last weekend in Austin with everyone and their boyfriend’s jaws dropped still tops the list of amazing pick ups. But I just thought of sharing this out, because it seems like a very normal close that can be done when you get your hair disheveled. Seriously there are a lot of cute and hot hairstylists out there. And plus once she falls into my follow up game, its game over.

As I end this 3 week run, I realize my interactions are becoming very solid, and that a huge part of the verbal and non verbal game in my part has been solid. For the past months I’ve done nothing but step aside and develop my character to again, as i mentioned in Easievibe’s journal, create a legit first impression that lasts throughout. I believe I have achieved that.

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/05/13/im-back-with-a-vengeance/ 2008-05-13T07:14:05Z 2008-05-13T07:14:05Z Updates

Aight….Summer’s here, and after the long break, I am back to working my blog. I got big things poppin’ soon guys, so thanks to the additional three thousand viewers who, despite a lack of new material, check the site out. Do not worry. I will upload some real dynamite articles, reports, reviews, and especially multimedia to you guys real soon.

I love you guys, peace.

Troy D

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/04/02/attention-alumni-one-more-day-till-vegas/ 2008-04-02T19:10:07Z 2008-04-02T19:10:07Z Updates

Imagine this crew together. One weekend, one helluva city. Wayne Elise

Rob

Harry

Jamie

Greg

Dan

Chad

Tim

Miq

and Myself

We will be presenting individually or together on the following topics

• Dates 
• One night stands
• Learning curves and progression
• Fashion
• Relationships
• Kino and Vibe
• 3 somes
• Phone and Text Game
• Logistics
• Bookstores
• and Club Game 

Plus its an awesome opportunity to see Wayne speak about his absolutely unique insights of the game that we all love. Its also a great opportunity to work and hang out with us in the field. One more day to sign up. Don’t miss this monumental event with us here at Charisma Arts Troy

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/03/28/april-mardi-gras-with-troy-and-racetrack-april-11/ 2008-03-28T13:27:02Z 2008-03-28T13:27:02Z Updates

As some of you know, I’m fully booked with work all the way through June. I’ve got some Charm Schools on the schedule as well as Private Instruction…but THIS ONE, is a can’t miss.

Its going to be my first time in New Orleans, and I’m going to have the privilege of having one of our soon-to-be-superstars, Racetrack, running Charm School with me. Also know that this is the first Charm School out of the Alumni Weekend, so whatever new stuff we conjure up during the “gathering of gatherings” in Las Vegas will be introduced or applied to this boot camp.

Its mardi gras all over again…

CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/03/25/my-interview-from-the-far-east-has-finally-been-published/ 2008-03-25T07:24:15Z 2008-03-25T07:24:15Z FREE Podcast Audio Podcasts

Thanks to Saint-Seducer X, GEP, and Thanos.

Here’s the intro by Saint-Seducer X (his local website is www.attraxionarts.com):

Interviews with Seducer Series (ISS)

So, the subject of our interview for this segment is Troy, one of the leading instructors of Charisma Arts. Charisma Arts, is founded by the guy named Wayne Elise, or the man popularly known as Juggler. For those of you who have read the book “The Game” by Neil Strauss, you will know that Juggler is a well-known and very respected PUA in the seduction community in the United States, and also the second guy after Mystery to conduct in-field workshops.

A little history lesson… Me and Troy go back as far as 2004. He used to be the boyfriend of one of my thesismates. I didn’t know he is involved in the seduction community back then as there was no hint that he was…, maybe he was turning his game off that time, I’m not really sure. Anyway, around one and a half years passed by and we bumped into each other when he returned from the States. That’s when he introduced me to the seduction community, and the rest is history. Technically speaking, he was the first person I have sarged with, way before the Manila Lair or any of the PUA’s in the Manila seduction community knew of Troy’s existence. I’m grateful to this man for being one of the people who introduced the game to me, and changed my life for the better.

What can I say about Troy? Well, the only thing I can tell you is that Troy isn’t exactly the guy he used to be as he is today. His game has improved tremendously and has had great success in improving the lives of fellow PUA’s as well.

What better way to know Troy than to ask the man himself right? To know more about Troy, just listen to this interview

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/03/07/reminiscing-on-some-good-times/ 2008-03-07T08:56:09Z 2008-03-07T08:56:09Z Videos

Time really flies by, it wasn’t so long ago that I was mentoring Tim and we ended up doing a program in Mexico. Yes, we were both Asian and did not know how to speak Spanish, but what the heck, they loved us. I was running through some old video and decided to make a mini-compilation of that experience. Enjoy

Troy

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/03/07/troys-day-game-snippets-part-one/ 2008-03-07T07:21:52Z 2008-03-07T07:21:52Z Uncategorized Articles

A potentiated insta-date. Day game can be real fun. Thanks to you guys who are continuously asking for content over here i’ve decided to write one tonight. This will be part of a series so just hang tight and enjoy.

On Opening:

A – Stands for attention. In certain parts of the world I’ve done day game, there are some actual chill places where people really have nothing on the docket and are just relaxing. But for some parts of North America, most people are on the go. People have programs running in their head – errands, bills, relationships, paid vacations, and what not. I’m pretty guilty of this as well. Even when I’m chillin’ I’m still on the go. Thus, it will be very hard to get my attention. Actually, there was only one bum who ever really caught me in San Francisco. And he did so cleverly.

I remember I was in the Marina in San Fran enjoying my day with a friend. We ran through a bunch of bums asking for money in pretty lame ways. This was until we got near the Pier. This guy, out of nowhere said “Hey, you! That’s illegal!”

The guy looked dead serious… And paused…didn’t say a thing

I looked like “what? What?” – he definitely got my attention by this time. Something no previous bum ever did.

He then goes – “Do you know…..that it’s illegal….”

I’m like “????”

“Do you know it’s illegal to be looking good in San Francisco?” Me and my friend start cracking up, candid camera style.

BOOM. He got me. It was clever enough that he deserved that dollar.

Point is, you have to get their attention, or your open can be defeated by that running program in their head. So, my suggestion is approach with a “hey” or “hi”…hold eye contact up until they look at you. Pause. Once you’ve gained their full attention, you can now deliver your conversation starter. It is important to break the program. Try having a buddy of yours role play by concentrating on a book, and you opening abruptly. 9 times out of 10 they can’t even hear what you’re saying and you will have to repeat yourself. It’s best to avoid that situation using the aforementioned opening delivery. Now, this is applicable to women who aren’t looking your way, i.e. they’re browsing the shelves or doing their groceries. The program is even stronger on walking sets, but that’s another story.

One pitfall I’ve seen guys do is keeping the conversation topic-based, usually because of focusing their conversation on the item that they used to open with. I call this the distractor. If I’m opening using a flopsy, focus, or a spontaneous opener, the presence of the distractor (i.e. the book, the spaghetti box) can impede my escalation. So what I do is I grab the distractor, by saying “that’s an interesting book, lemme see that…what’s it about…” then I close it, lower my hand carrying it, and ramp up to a personal conversation. If you can relate to this, you know what I’m talking about. Another alternative is introducing a distractor of your own (I always carry a book I’m an authority on when I’m in a bookstore). Even though the book can potentially create a topic based convo, it is something that matters to YOU and is a good leeway to escalating personally.

Alright boys, hope that helped. The next article will be about personal escalation. Anyhoo I am leaving the country next week and will be coming home to lovely Philippines. If you’re reading this and will meet me there. You know who you are. Every day will pretty much look like this:

=)

Hasta, and sign up on the Austin boot camp when i get back! You won’t regret it.

Troy

]]> masterlife http://masterlife.podbean.com/2008/03/03/im-having-writers-block/ 2008-03-04T02:30:06Z 2008-03-04T02:30:06Z Updates

Sometimes, when you’ve been teaching heavily simplified concepts day in and day out, and you’ve churned some of your best articles that kinda “says what needs to be said,” Its kinda hard to drum up new articles and find new inspirations.

Tokyo,Japan      London, England   Toronto, Canada

Life got hectic for a minute. So, i’d like you guys, the readers, to help me out.

One thing I’ve failed to recognize in this writer’s block, is the fact that more and more new people are discovering the blog and/or are new to Charisma Arts and myself. I also discounted the fact that there are different developmental levels to write articles on.

Anyways, you guys have been viewing this site tremendously since its humble beginnings last year. All of you who have made 22 thousand views possible. I’m no internet analytics guy, but that makes me happy knowing you appreciate the stuff over here.

So, help me out guys. Email me at troy@charismaarts.com and give me suggestions on my next article!

All the best

Troy

]]>