In anticipation of Nash Casten’s Masterclass in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia after the Lifestyle Retreat, we’re giving a special treat to all the guys in the APAC region. Nash, who is authoring this month’s Champions of Choice will be doing a free teleseminar over Skype (download http://www.skype.com) for the KL Lair as well as the rest of our fans in the region.
It will be at 9 PM Hong Kong Time (or 8 AM Eastern Standard Time) this Saturday Feb 13, 2010. Nash will be doing an hour talk on all things TDD and the various steps it takes to get to the 24/7 Attractive Man level.
All you have to do, is download skype, get a headset if you want to participate, and add him. His username is Mantheycallpimp. Again, that’s Mantheycallpimp.
Nash has been holding the fort doing our programs in Manila for 3 years now and just got back from the Singapore Masterclass.
Men that have trouble understanding the way to success with men and women in my opinion have blinders on. It doesn’t help either that they’re learning some 100-step method where they apparently need to banter, throw some slick lines, “neg” a chick, and wear a fashion item that makes them stand out (like a huge ass hat). So, its OUR JOB to help take those blinders away and make them see the matrix. Yes, we’ve worked this system for several years and I have to say that when mastered, the TDD system is a virtual LOCK DOWN for success with women. There are no holes, no weirdisms, no uncharacteristic stuff to learn.
Hopefully this power packed article will make you realize where you’re at and motivate you to take the blinders off.
There are three levels of Awareness in TDD:
Awareness of Self
Awareness of the Dynamic between men and women, and
Awareness of Social Dynamics
Keep reading as I will discuss each Awareness Level with GREAT TIPS for you guys to apply them…
Time for another TDD Foundational article guys. This time we will tackle one of the most used techniques in the TDD arsenal, L.O.S. or Line of Sight. Let’s start off with the definition:
Line of Sight means basic body positioning when you’re in an enclosed social environment.
It’s a science but once you’ve done it enough and have used it in multiple applications and scenarios it becomes an art you will start appreciating. Its one of the top proficiencies needed to get a higher ranking within the TDD system. It’s one of my favorite tools so if you want to get some specific drills and tech inside this article then read on..
Here’s a PERFECT EXAMPLE of what you’ll be looking at if you did LOS + Eye Contact in a Social Environment! FTW!
Brandon if you’re reading this, I still have the “outtakes videos” of you and me practicing the Swagger Walk and the nonverbals in your hotel room here in San Antonio. The retro feel to it might be of interest to you.
My client, Brandon flew in for a Private Instruction Weekend not too long ago. I’d say this was one of the real fun ones because he came in at 18 years old, and was very open to the huge influx of knowledge and experience he was going to take in over the weekend. Just like any client who comes into our doorstep, I see POTENTIAL. B was a good kid with a good heart, and with the training he was going to undergo during the weekend, it was going to be a process. Oh let’s not forget he was still a virgin at the time as well.
For 2 and a half days we trained extensively - on the Macro stuff - mindsets, awareness, game plans, and the Skill Sets - verbals, nonverbals, conveyance - to the fun flashy stuff - dance game, to lifestyle design on the debrief. Brandon was about to enter college, and I wanted to equip this kid with nothing short of a NUKE BOMB because I believed after meeting him he was DESTINED TO RULE.
…and he did.
Six Months Later, I get an email from him, and this is what he wrote. There have been no edits on this as this is copied exactly from my mailbox:
Hey Troy,
This e-mail might be totally out of nowhere, but now that i feel settled down in college, i just wanted to show you the amazing life you’ve led me to. Sexually, I can have sex with most any girl i want. I”ve had over 7 one night lays in the months since the P.I.. But ive also realized that sex in a relationship is incredible too! i had two friends with benefits and im keeping one because she is an amazing girl. So i have this great friends with benefits relationship with this great girl, and tomorrow im going on a date with the hottest girl on campus and partying with her saturday so who knows whats next. Its exciting and crazy. i love it!!! my classes are good too and about ten minutes ago i just got a text from this girl i danced with once. we’re gonna salsa in my room later on in the week (from my perspective guaranteed sex if i want it) too many girls not enough time…. sooo much funnn!!!!!
you like results… my life is an absurd representation of what you can do. i was a virgin before i hung with you. Now im different in so many ways. MY Confidence is off the charts, im more happy, and sexually satisfied and im just plain cooler/smoother. I just say whatever i want to girls and dont worry about it. I havent gone more than a few days without sex this semester. Just odd to think back to me in a different time where i never would have believed any of this to be possible.
just wish you could see it!!!! its nuts hahah. My sex partner does my laundry and brings me food when im hungry. my orientation group for college had 4 girls and ive had sex with 2 of them. and their friends.
I am a gentleman to all of them and treat them the way id like them to treat me.
also I learned salsa moves and feel like i can really dance now! although i cant touch your shoulder pop.
plus my grades are going well which is the most important thing of them all.
Thank you Troy
Keep in touch with me!
Brandon
I Cannot Stress enough that the TDD LIVE PROGRAMS (such as the Private Instruction Camps, the Seasonal Masterclasses, and the Lifestyle Retreat) are the way to go to achieve total domination in LIFE.
Our Live Programs are the bread and butter of the organization and all our constituents and high level practitioners have all been graduates of any of the previously mentioned programs.
If you’d like to know IMMEDIATE INFO on these, Simply Click on the link HERE and email your desired instructor for camp dates and pricing. We offer monthly payments and will work with you on logistical details for the most exciting weekend of your life. You can also EMAIL ME at troy@troydizondating.com for any questions you may have on our programs.
Hot off the heels of a sold out and highly successful live program, our Masterclass in Singapore last weekend, Nash is on a roll with tons of bookings back in Manila and Malaysia. We don’t call him our own Tucker Max for nothing. He definitely deserves credit for being a major proponent of the nightclub proficiency of the TDD system.
He is also the most controversial character in the TDD Line up that appeared on the Asian Dating Superstars product. He has appeared on our MILF teleseminar, Numerous publications and tv shows, and has been one of my oldest compadres in the game dating back to 2006.
“THE BATTLE IS WON BEFORE IT IS EVEN FOUGHT” - SUN TZU
On the upcoming COC releasing Feb 15, Nash BARES ALL on his unique rules, techniques, strategies and unorthodox style of mastering the night scene. If you’ve been wanting to listen to a REAL NIGHT MASTER, NASH IS THE MAN. He’ll tell you first hand that being knowledgeable about the night scene and its culture is the first step to dominating it, not going out blindly several nights a week. Add this to the Feb 1 Duo Pack Release of SOCIAL INFERNO and you’ve got a beast of a game plan if you want to attack the night scene.
Make an early reservation now by signing up on the Champions of Choice Series AND still get COC 11 - Conversation Master 2 before we pull that one out for good February 2, 2010. Remember that we just recently retro’ed the COC’s from last year. Don’t wait till 2011 and enjoy our monthly premium podcasts by signing up TODAY for only $29.95
Nash can also be reached for Private Instruction, his email address is Nash@troydizondating.com. His Next Masterclass in Singapore is July 2010 and you can check the side bar for a 6 month payment plan for that rare event.
I can’t wait. 47 Days till the ENTIRE TDD CONGLOMERATE gets together for THREE WEEKS for the biggest training event of 2010. Again, its not too late if you’re considering taking a vacation with us. Email me at troy@troydizondating.com
2009 Saw TDD Expand Dramatically and Results Kept Stacking Up Because of this One Product Line. Champions of Choice was the perfect supplemental tool when it comes to specific topics to boost your game to the TDD Level.
I Get Emails EVERY DAY on the most insane student successes I have ever known, and that’s AFTER even being exposed to the Pick Up Community. Our 10 Different Premium Podcasts for the year 2009 laid out the ground work for our current top-tier Alumni. Unfortunately, if you subscribed LATE, then the previous one would be taken down and retired for good. I have received numerous emails to get the previous ones up again and after careful consideration looking at how COC became the building blocks of TDD I have decided to launch them again — but with a purpose.
I realized that COMBINING certain COC’s would serve different training purposes for our clients. Some might want a girlfriend or a long term relationship, some just want to start from scratch on the socializing scene, and some want to learn escalation strategy. Do not worry, all of these are going to have their own Duo Packs.
SOCIAL INFERNO
The Champions of Choice Duo Pack #1
(Limited Release - Feb 1-14)
This is definitely something that both beginners and intermediate guys will appreciate. I chose this combination simply because this has everything other companies, especially “pick up” companies don’t offer. Most of these guys go in social venues and just start doing blind approaches, usually settling for the number of some random but never really building that dominating performance of meeting key people and having them as allies and friends, getting in with the classiest women, and having the power of retention: Seeing these people again. Most pick up guys are so consumed about approaching day in and day out that most of their circles are even incongruent to what they want.
Remember that the power is in the POSITIONING. How you position yourself socially will determine your success with friends, circles you want to surround yourself with, and lets not forget the WOMEN. You can avoid feeling lost socially by grabbing our first DUO PACK of 2010. Take note that this will be given at a special price considering that both these podcasts are RETIRED (due to continuing subscriptions). This will be your ONE CHANCE to get it because we are going to pull the plug and move on to Duo Pack #2 For March.
Here are the Two Major COC’s You’ll Be Getting:
I. Champions of Choice #1: Social Domination
was the classic first COC of TDD. Social Domination was all about mastering how to act in any social venue. This was the COC that first introduced the art of “planting social seeds” and went on the specifics of how it was done. If you want to approach with a purpose, build allies and avoid being the clueless loner in a party or gathering, then this will get the job done.
The RIGHT ATTITUDE that every potential SOCIAL PHENOM should have
Cultivating energy that help create a powerful presence when walking in a venue
Who to approach first, and what to say when you get there
Proper time management in social venues
How to effectively merge groups and become the talk of the town
The weakness of storytelling and why you should avoid it
An Actual Field Success Story that puts everything together
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this Powerful Social Tool will be paired up with
II. Champions of Choice #8: Innovative Social Circle Seduction
So, you’ve got your foot in the door. COC 8 gets into the science of group and social circle dynamics. With the knowledge you learn in this COC, you can literally embed yourself into any social circle you desire and seduce just about any woman in it. Its also the perfect tool for guys who have always wanted to seduce women in their own circle. A lot of PUA haters think we’re cheating because we know everybody. Well, now you know why.
HOW TO BUILD A SOCIAL CIRCLE from Scratch
HOW to have a long lasting impression to be remembered
Retention - getting chased versus chasing
The Science of Social Circles and how to take advantage of it.
Seducing Women in a Social Circle
The Lazy Man’s Method of making your circle work for you.
With the knowledge and skills from these two Mega-COC’s combined you can now set forth on a Social Mission of Surrounding Yourself with the right people, the right women, and know the skills to expand that network and seduce ANY woman in it.
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As if the night couldn’t get any more explosive. Just hours before this, I was with Whoozy, Val, JirQUEST, going around the club and just being the life of the party that night. From our audacious “Walk The Red Carpet” challenges, where we got chicks to cheer and salute us as we walked down a red carpet inside the club, to the Dancefloor Game moment where random people started pushing aside chairs and tables, whipping out cameras just to record possibly the most exciting, sexually-charged dance they will ever see by 2 random strangers. Not gonna lie, I was exhausted by then and after de-briefing the Masterclass at 3am in the morning, I began to make my way over to my ride.
The 24/7 Attractive Man is a state of BEING. Even after the class, everything from the way I walk and talk communicates masculine attraction to the women around me.
“No one on the corner got a Swagger like us.”
As I Swagger-Walked my way over to my ride, I was doing the usual returning of smiles and eye-contact to the women around me. As I walked past the taxi-stand at Clarke Quay, I spotted a girl checking me out within my Line-Of-Sight. As usual, I turned to face her to return the eye-contact. The next few seconds were a moment I would never forget. In fact, every time I think of this moment, I cannot help but smile.
In front of me stood a 1.7m tall beauty. She had the most enchanting eyes which held a hint of excitement. She had a body with curves that I believe hour-glasses were moulded after, hidden under an electrifying blue dress which did nothing to hide those killer curves. Her classy white clutch bag went hand-in-hand with her white heels, which supported a pair of toned and tanned legs which I had trouble peeling my eyes off. But… all that excitement turned to shock the moment her pretty face cringed in horror. And my shock turned to horror when I realized it too…
“Oh my god!”, she exclaimed.
“DAMN!”, I exclaimed.
Immediately, she came over to give me a hug.
It all made perfect sense now. She was G, School Belle back in primary school. The one I had a crush on but never in my wildest dreams would I even imagine having a conversation with.
As We Say In TDD, GAME-ON
A little history here. Back in my primary school days (7-12 years old), I was obese. I was probably the official mascot of the TAF Club (a club where overweight kids were forced to gather twice a week to exercise) and at the prime of my primary school life, probably had less than zero girls ever mentioning me in their list of crushes. But I was well-known as the fat-kid.
To some, the fact that she hugged me immediately might be surprising, since we never spoke a word to each other in primary school. But it makes perfect sense. Allow me to explain.
Everyone knew me as the fat-kid but thanks to Facebook, all my primary school mates were able to see the present me. I know for a fact that at this point in time, I am way ahead in life compare to most of my peers. The fact that she was so into me from the get-go goes to show that my virtual Line-Of-Sight was on point. It is not foolish to say that these girls from primary school were checking me out on Facebook and obviously G, the school belle, was one of them. I am actually AWARE that one day, when I eventually meet these women, I would’ve conveyed many winning qualities to them and that dating them after that would not be much of an issue.
It was 3a.m, I didn’t want to waste my time and hers. I had a Game-Plan set up in my mind in seconds. I told her, “Ya know what, the night is still young, we should celebrate our little reunion.” Saying this with my TDD-styled sexual non-verbals was a killer move. She immediately agreed and in about approximately 3 minutes, we were walking to my ride. We stopped by a petrol kiosk on the way to our reunion at my place (;-)) to grab some snacks and within 40 minutes, we were seated in my living room.
As I prepared us some Martel + Coke, we had a pretty sexually charged conversation.
Me : This has got to be the most successful reunion ever, everyone on the guest list turned up.
G : Haha yea, and we are the life of the party!
Me : Cheers to that!
Me : Ya know, a 2-person reunion is actually pretty suggestive.
G : Yea I know right, like, what are people gonna think? haha…
Me : Yea, it’s like even if we don’t have sex, people are not gonna believe us.
G : Haha exactly!
Me : But still, I want to keep my virginity tonight so…
G : OMG shut up, you are SO not a virgin!!! (she starts to hit me now)
Me : Hey, hey, you don’t even know me that well. Though it’s strange, I feel like we’ve known each other for a long time now.
G : Yea me too…
Me : I actually feel like we’re a couple now.
I put my arm around her and give her a kiss on her head and say :
Me : Baby, I did the drinks, so you’re gonna do the cleaning up after this, okay?
G : Haha you jerk, go away, I want to break-up with you!
I slide my hands down and wrap both arms around her, pretending to coax her.
Me : But baby, please… I worked so hard this week… and I still had sex with you when I had a headache…
G : Hahahaha… oh my god… you’re crazy…
Me : Haha… *sexual vibe* a little…
G : umm hmm… *She’s giving me the triangular gaze now*
Me : *licks lips* umm hmm…
If you thought we made out after that, give yourself a high-five.
So after making out for a bit, I pulled back and said I was thirsty. So we drank a little more and caught up a bit. She began playfully hitting me a lot more and I switched to couple mode from time to time. At one point, we made out and I carried her to my room. As we began to rip our clothes off, her phone started ringing. In my experience, there was no way a girl would answer the phone, unless it was someone or something important. She jumped off my bed and went to her phone, cursed and picked it up.
Borefriend Drama
All this while, I realised that I forgot to ask if she had a boyfriend. Well, no biggie, I found out anyway. Even if she had one, there was no way I was gonna back down since my GUT told me it was Game-On. So she quarreled with her Boyfriend over the phone after she said she was at the house of a MALE primary school friend she met at Clarke Quay. When she put down her phone, she turned to me sadly and told me that she had to go back home and because her boyfriend demanded that she dial him with her home line.
I buckled up my belt again and put on my shirt, grabbed a bag and threw in my alcohol shaker and a bottle of VSOP. She asked me what I was doing and I said, “I accept your invitation to continue this party at your place ” She laughed real hard and came over to kiss me. So off we went to her place.
Wait-for-it…
Every time I am out partying or on a date, before I leave, I will always slip in some music that conveys personality traits about me. I am all about John Legend and John Mayer, so most of my car-rides are moments where I showcase my charismatic side. I sing and talk about how the songs make me feel, which is a classic display of contrast and harmony (like a big-picture Double-Relate). So I am putting on songs like “Greenlight”, “No Other Love”, “Slow Dance”, “P.D.A” by John Legend and building the sexual vibe.
By the time we got to her place, we were holding hands like a couple. We head straight for the room and she tells me she’s gonna call her BOREfriend. As she waits for her BOREfriend to pick up the phone, I wrap my arms around her from behind and start kissing her ears. She’s feeling it and she starts to run her hand through my hair. As I slowly slipped her dress down, her BOREfriend picks up. She is suddenly startled but I start kissing and nibbling on her neck and she gets back into the zone.
I can overhear her BOREfriend being pissed at her. She is (obviously) all calm over her, as I un-did her bra and began rubbing her breasts. I also pull her close, letting her feel “The Stone” against her ass. I push her against a wall and start to grind up against her. She is totally feeling it and I can still hear her BOREfriend scolding her. She is listening with her eyes closed, just going “Um hmm… Yea…” on the phone from time to time. I then lead her to a chair and sat her on my lap as I sucked on her nipples. She goes a little crazy now and I guess her BOREfriend is asking her what she’s up to because she says, “OHH… oh… nothing… go on, sorry…”.
I whispered into her ear and asked her to tell her boyfriend she is going to lie down. This makes her anticipate what I am going to do next. When she lies down, I started to un-do my pants and she is on the verge of bursting into laughter now. Before I could start on my underwear, she pulls it down, grabs my cock and starts sucking on it, occasionally going “umm… umm hmm…” to her very pissed off BOREfriend. She obviously wasn’t doing a good job because I think finally, the giggling and sucking sounds got to her BOREfriend because she had to explain (or rather, lie about) the events of the night to him. This was the moment I stripped her naked and started having sex with her.
2 minutes in, she told her boyfriend she had to go to the bathroom and that she would call him back. I made sure she did 30 minutes later after some serious post-sexual-repression sex before I left for breakfast
Lessons to be Learnt :
- Do not doubt the powers of CONVEYANCE that your Facebook profile has. I have said many times that I truly believe that I could get laid based on my Facebook profile and I am not kidding. This is a stellar example right here.
Convey the life of the 24/7 Attractive Man and after that, it’s all about leading her through your Game Plan.
- Game Plan. In the words of Troy “Papa Falcon” Dizon : “Without a Game Plan, you will not get the girl.”
Your Game Plan is so important. I credit much of this event to the fact that I had a solid Game Plan in fact, which made it so easy. I also believe that once you have a solid game plan that you BELIEVE IN and ENJOY, things become easier and a lot more enjoyable.
- Leading. The reason why I made it all happen in such a short time is because I lead G through my Game Plan very confidently. When I had a solid Game Plan in check, it helped me stay in control of the situation so I was never nervous or unsure throughout the night. I was supremely confident, which was another turn-on for her.
I also deployed heavy and concise Foreshadowing, which was effective because it involved G and I moving progressively through the night. This built anticipation within her, which resulted in a mind-blowing night.
- Look through your primary/elementary, secondarly/high school networks TODAY! hahaha
Alright people, hope you learned something from this.
Xavier
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“Its funny that I truly believe for every 1 girl there’s always 4-5 guys chasing them.”
Question is, are you one of those guys or are you the one getting chased?
There’s a difference. The 4 guys chasing her are
a) linear in thinking, and they feel like advancing forward is the best way i.e. number-to-callback, callback-to-date, date-to-movies, movies-to-first kiss, kiss-to-…jesus christ wtf.
b) don’t have a game plan nor their dimensions settled, and
c) suck at x = x (attracting women via their vibe and their core values)
Then you’ve got the other guy, THAT GUY (Nash always says this term) who,
a) is NOT linear in thinking, very nonchalant, throws the bait out there (i.e. vibe and core values, nonverbals) and once it hooks, he escalates TO THE GAME PLAN
b) Has his dimensions and congruency to the game plan settled, and so escalating things are smooth, and
c) Has his beliefs and gut in check and surrounds his life with people of great attitudes.
I’ve been on both ends. I think things started working for me at an early age when I decided to STOP CHASING and adjusted my aforementioned style (what tdd is today) and boom everything started happening.
Just remember, if you’re chasing like what I said above, you’re one of the 4 idiots and there’s some chill mofo out there who’s laughing at you because she’s chasing him.
Well, Here’s one such motherfucker (haha!) and he’s FROM TDD
A client of mine skyped me an hour ago with this:
Client: Bro, u cant imagine other guys who wanted to date her doing all these stupid stuffs, and your man here, just one date and BAMMM
Me: I KNOW! What stupid stuffs. Do tell
Client: tdd man..sheeesh…like..sending letters..4 guys wanted to date her. Like, doing the hitch movie scene showing up wearing sneakers without telling where they going
Me: shut up! really?
Client: they end up goin rock climbing but she has go home and change because she wears not nice for rock climbing The other guy..just talk talk talk talk everyday sending txts everyday and ur man here…less talk..less text..more fuck…4 times i fucked her in 1 day
Troy: hahahaha jeeez
Me: like i said, its funny how guys are chasing these women and in our style we get to fuck em without really chasing them linear
Client: Yeah man, she even said I’m different and the other guys like friends only
Troy: how did the date go? I mean what happened during the second meet.
Client: I told her i feel like having desert today and asked her to come with me. Foreshadow she can check out ikea furnirture later after desert
Me: first sentence said it all
Client: MY Ikea Furniture hahahaha
Me: hahahahahahahahahahaha
Client: After ice cream we were at my pad already
Me: hahahahahahahahahaha
Client: poured some bombay sapphire with sprite and lime, watching American idol. Every time the ad pops up, we make out. Then I brought her inside my room, smoked my hookah (i foreshadowed this when we first met)relax….relax…. i get horny.. BBAAAMMM 3 times last night. The next morning, I spent time at her place…BAM one more time! She said I’m her first random…beat the shit out of other (chasing) guys
Me: hahahahahahaha.. wow
Client: other guys are Latinos, Persian, Korean Australian and your Mr shorty here already fucked her
Client: like u said on (Mentorship Program) Call #3, I’m good to go
Me: yup yup
Client: Thank God and thank u, i got supply for until uni starts again
Me: hahaha yeayahhhhhh
There you go, food for thought (and why you should dump all that PUA crap and work with us)
Troy Dizon
Read More Random Musings from my “Generals Diary” HERE